Closure this, closure that!?

Question

I did something, that now, it is just coming to me, that i had no business doing. i think i thought at the time i had a reason and it was good, but now im looking back and i regret this. If you had to stop talking to a good friend because of their spouse said they were uncomfortable and you apologized because you were sorry, but you asked if you could get some closure meaning what exactly happpened . would you? lets just say I dont think it was my business to ask, i was only friends with this person for 4 months and they were married for almost 10 yrs. I feel shitty now, but its too late, cant do much about it. I want to know, am i right, right now thinking , i had no business asking for some closure? i feel that i was wrong.

Answer 1

Wanting to have closure for something is not wrong. It satisfies something within you to know what the reasoning was. I personally think that you just are searching for an explanation as to why the spouse did not want the relationship to continue.
It is just human nature to be curious. Don't feel bad for wondering. Hopefully you will get your answer.

Answer 2

I don't know what you mean. But closure is a state of mind, not a series of events. You decide to put a period after the event and move on; you don't ask other people to do or say or behave in ways to make you feel better.

Answer 3

sounds like a typical loser to me, what closure do you prefer? he's A LOSER - permit him bypass and get on which incorporate your wonderful existence =) : cheer up and flow forward, you look as though a competent individual and you mustn't be held returned via low existence scum. finally end up a real guy.

Answer 4

You were wrong. Whatever their spouse said is what the other needs to follow, within reason. I am sure that is what is bothering you as I'm sure you'd want it that way if it was your spouse.

Answer 5

closure is always a good thing to have. at least it will set your mind at ease.

Answer 6

What the question....