There is this guy i see around campus (college) daily, we have the same routine I've gathered. Stand in the same line for food, sit in the general same area... but sometimes he'll be on the other end of the cafeteria. I think he is really cute. He is almost always by himself, as am I. I want to go up and break the ice/say something/introduce myself, get to know him/vice versa..see what happens from there.. but I can't for the life of me think of anything. We've seen eachother around, we both know it... made eye contact. I might've even smiled a bit. I"m really shy, so having troubles with approaching him randomly...but I dont think I can brush him aside, cos i'll wonder what would've happened if I did go up to him.
2006-11-10 10:23:30 · 6 answers · asked by Natalie H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Smile at him, on purpose, and make eye contact, every time you see him. When he smiles back, don't get shy and look away. You can even say, "hi," if the spirit moves you. Let him look away first. He'll talk to you.
P.S. No stalking.
2006-11-10 10:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ethel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 12:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by alisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Natalie H,
Next time you see him say hi. Then the next time after that, tell him that, "We're going to have to stop meeting like this." Then, when you're in the cafeteria, ask if you can sit at his table. How's that?
--Rick
2006-11-10 10:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see him sitting alone, just go over and ask him if the seat next to him is taken. He'll tell you to have a seat. Then just talk about your classes, etc....you'll find some common ground to talk about from there.
2006-11-10 10:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by Eric B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that feeling of wondering what might have happened. well, you can always ridicule the cafeteria food, for one thing.
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2006-11-10 10:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋