right well theres this boy i really like but his x girl-friend is realli realli obsessed with him and when ever he has a new girl-friend she beat them up and one of the girls he was with she chased with a knife and base ball bat and when i was with him i got beat up twice and she sent she was going to kill me if i didnt finish it i did but i didnt want to i still hav feeling for him and its been about 4 months since we was together and aqnother thing is i dont like going out no more because im not sure if shes going to hit me again the second time she beat me up tow of my best mates took me to her to get beat up and i had no idea they was taking me to her !! what should i do i still like him but theres that risk and ino he likes me because he got a girl to hit her and warn her off me but she just beat her up and he saint he would hit her but hes a boy and he doesnt think its right
2006-11-10 10:20:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who's problem is this really...
You may have the problem in the hear and now but it sounds like he has and will continue to have this problem if he doesn't do some thing about it. He can't live his life with who he wants and you are getting physically hurt! Has she been reported to the police; this is abusive and you can get a restraining order. A restraining order won't do any thing at first, but after three strikes - she is under arrest baby!
And after every additional offense it only gets worse for her!
You may want to consider one for your self and your friend should consider one as well.
Who is the one you asked about making the first move on; maybe you should see him instead.
2006-11-10 10:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by Feather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as he's a boy and doesn't beat a girl, he also owes you protection. And what's this about your two best mates bringing you to be beaten up. It makes me wonder about the friends you're keeping. You may need to see a counsellor who may guide you.
2006-11-10 18:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Melody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some new friend, get any and all threats that she sent to you in text messages, phone messages, internet postings, etc, and call the cops. I also don't think this guy is doing enough to keep her away from you. I suspect that he might like the attention.
2006-11-10 18:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? no man or women is worth fighting over, you need to get feelings for yourself & move on with the fact that there is a girl who will beat you up if you are caught with this boy, get over him & you need to have that girl arrested for assult i bet then she will learn to control her behavior gl put her in jail all folks h8t their freedom being stripped away from them gl
2006-11-10 18:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay far, far away from him. It will only bring you pain. Besides, what kind of guy lets his ex beat up a potential new girl?
2006-11-10 18:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG find new friends and a new boyfriend.I mean really life is to short to put up with that kind of S H I T...
2006-11-10 18:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would contact like the police or something that is assault but i know guys aren't supposed to hit girls but he has a job to protect you and just standing there and letting that happen is wrong.
2006-11-10 18:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by jrtootsiepop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you fneed to call the cops and make a assault complaint on this person. get enough of them from people and they will lock the freak away.
2006-11-10 18:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by Biker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. you need help girl. see a counselor and get some intelligent advice about violence, relationships, friends, boyfriends...you have a lot to learn.
2006-11-10 18:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by Essmi d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he wont get rid of his ex, he'll never give you what you want.
Clearly, you like this drama or you'd be long gone.
2006-11-10 18:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋