i'm always the kid the ONLY kid who isn't allowed to do what every1 else is. i mean i know wut ur gonna say she cares avout you and **** but seriously parents there is a limit. i mean aren't there bad effects for overbeaing your kid? i'm lucky that i'm allowed to stay home alone at the day and i'm almost 15/ i'm even luck tht u'm allowed to walk back home from my bustop which isn't faraway (well i also have to) she doesn't let me stay home alone at night. and all this other ****
2006-11-10 10:15:55 · 9 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Not staying alone at night is reasonable for a 15-year-old. She'd be irresponsible to leave you alone.
2006-11-10 10:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kacky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i know how you feel i mean my was the same way with me!!!! I was the only one out of all my friends who couldn't do things!!!!!! Yes it sucks, and i believe the down side to it is that your missing out on all the fun things that you could be doing with your friends and then you may also just start doing things with your friends and not telling your Mom!!!! That's what i started doing, lying to her about things and doing what i wanted!!!!! But the I'm 19 years old now and she still doesn't let me do some things!!! Yes NOW she let's me do things but to show her that i can be responsible i call her when i get some where and when I'm coming home!!!! You have to show your Mom that she can trust you and that you are responsible to do the things you wanna do!!!! Don't do what i did, because when my Mom found out she was so hurt, and you have to realize the she cares about you and just wants to know that you are and will be safe!!!! Have a talk with her, and ask what do you have to do, so she can let you go out or some where with your friends!!! Talking about things always helps, as i got older i talked to my Mom about all this kind of stuff, and it worked!!!!! i have more freedom now then i did when i was 16!!!! But understand why she says what she says and why she does what she does, its all for a reason!!! Just talk to her and sooner or later she will start to let you have some freedom!!! help her understand where your coming from with out getting mad, and understand where she is coming from!! Hope this helps, good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-10 21:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by cheerpunk2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do know what you mean but I am in both of your sides. First hey we are teens we want a life right?We spend all of our years in school right? So we need some space in life but not to much because now in this centurey there are rapers and people who will do something bad to you. But your in an age were kids want freedom. So talk to your parents tell them how you feel and how you want some space. So just show them that you are reasponsible for your actions and they let you have some space.
PS: Carry a cellphone to show how reasponsible or call them when your somewhere.
2006-11-10 18:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by ~~~baby boo 4 life~~~~~~~~a.k.a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your mother knows about the 12 year old who was kidnapped while she was walking home from the bus stop and was raped and killed, or maybe it's the 5 year old that was kidnapped while she was playing in her front yard she was raped and killed, or maybe it was the 8 year old and the 3 year old who were raped and killed. The 3 year olds throat was cut. Or maybe it's the 14 year old who was kidnapped while waiting for her school bus right in front of her house. She was raped and killed. I could go on and on about these children who weren't protected enough! You complain about your mother showing how much she loves you and wants you to be safe and it's a shame that you don't APPRECIATE her concern. Too bad you can't talk to the mother of the 13 year old who had been left home alone who was kidnapped and raped by a man who broke into her house. Be thankful young lady, not resentful.
2006-11-10 19:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get all mad at mom and/or dad know that they would say nothing if they didn't care. I can't tell you how many people I know that I thought were so lucky growing up because they got to do everything. Now that they are all grown and gone they say "What were my parents thinking letting me do all that. I would have ended up much better off with more structure in my childhood."
Good luck and your right... Your parents do care about you. Your lucky you have them.
2006-11-10 18:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by jasenwhetstone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With everything in the world that is going on, you should appreciate that you have good parents. You already stated you don't want to hear that, but that's the way it is. You can run your life when you are 18, moved out and financially supporting yourself.
2006-11-10 18:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your mother is being very reasonable. You are still young and dont fully grasp all the dangers out there. Just be patient and you will soon be on your own and how much do you want to bet you will look back and be thankful she was the way she is..........SHE LOVES YOU
2006-11-10 18:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show your mom how RESPONSIBLE you are with actions, then she'll slowly but surely start to give you more freedom. Are you doing well in school? If so, just remind her of that. If not, start doing well and then ask for more freedom.
2006-11-10 18:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by Evoljz_Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shes not being overly protective , she is being overly afraid of what could happen while you are alone. And that is called love and concern for you.. You are the one being unreasonable . she loves you and wants you safe..
2006-11-10 18:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋