My ex says that we would be friends after we broke up, why isn't he talking to me after 5 months has past?

Question

Does he still miss me or something? He also tickled me for no reason not to long ago. Could that mean something?

Answer 1

He must have lied.

Answer 2

Guys are not as complicated as we make them out to be. It is obvious why he said he wanted to stay friends at the time. We as girls are VERY emotional....breaking up is an extremely emotional process for us. Guys know this and some of them try to lessen the blow by coupling the act with something positive. Like "I wanna stay friends". They dont usually mean it tho. It's just a technique they use to make it easier for themselves. Guys never wanna feel like the bad guy but they are often forced to be....he was just loking for a way out..and let me guess..you where way more into him then he was to you! TADA! There is my opinion. And the only reason I have this strong opinion is because i was recently in this position. I kept wondering "UM...How can we stay friends if he doesnt call". But it ended up beig a good thing...cuz the more time we spent apart....the faster I got over him. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

2 things could be going on.
1. Your ex is a total jerk
2. He is so not over the relationship.

Answer 4

those friend relationhips after a romantic relationship seldomly work out. Please stop sitting there trying to figure it out and just move on. His new girl has his attention and doesn't have time to do the friendship thing with you. You need to do something with your time, like meeting someone new.

Answer 5

he probably felt he made a mistake and feels guilty. but after 5 MONTHS well just get over him, he's not worth it.

Answer 6

He's not talking to you because maybe hes moved on duh not to be mean but life goes on