so ive known this guy for 2 years, week ago he came over, we got together and stuff, went out to a movie, kissed, even slept together, without having sex tho.we talked ab dating and everything sounded good. then, before he had to leave we spent some time kissing and hugging and stuff. then on the next day i get an email from him saying we better stay friends..i dont know whats the reason he wrote that for. when we talked he was fine ab dating, we discussed few things, everything was great. and the whole time he was acting like he was enjoying the whole thing and was happy. im a bit confused, not sure what to do. any advices???shall i call him and just ask what made him write that? he said in the email, he had had bad luck with relationship and girls in general, but the problem is that i have a huge crush on him. my step dad is his boss, and he likes to make some naughty jokes, which he did, and maybe that was the reason this guy whote that email coz? i dunno what to do.
2006-11-10 09:45:06 · 7 answers · asked by vip_alushka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he's having a classic case of Cold Feet! He totally exhibits commitment issues. He's just guarding his heart. Respond with an email in kind and assure him that you understand his hesitance and that you are going to respect his boundaries. Let him know that your are totally into him and that you are patient and willing to take it slow. Assure him that you are only interested in making this a relationship that will be based on love, respect, and admiration. Throw in some things you find attractive about his character. You have your mind made up that he's the one for you? Well go get him girl! Take it slow and easy, he's like a wild stallion and only a soft voice and steady grip is gonna tame him.
2006-11-10 09:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very complicated situation here. He has met some of your family and probably feels bad that it has gone this far in such a short time. Give it time. Ignore him. He will be more responsive in the end.
2006-11-10 09:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by clubmaster300087 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thnk the problem is from your dad and he has asked him not to make out with you
may be thats why he wrote the email.
I think you need to tell him that you have confidence of him ... give him some courage and ask him if your dad is behind it.
2006-11-10 09:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by snip3r_scorpion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like you. He was hoping for sex, but he didn't get it. So now its time to cool it down.
2006-11-10 09:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask and i he does not tell you start to flirt i mean flirt!! and then ask him and if he tell right off the bat the make out with him.
2006-11-10 09:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should aask him why did you wrote this letter. maybe he wrote that cause he thought you have crush on him.
2006-11-10 09:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by malutty92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know him, no one knows him but you after two years, uhm to me it sounds like he is just scared. but ...
thats my opinion
2006-11-10 09:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋