apoligze...guys have been ignoring me ive been depressed lately I'm not looking for alot of attention and im not hidiously ugly I have low selfesteem i just feel ignored by guys.
2006-11-10 09:37:46 · 13 answers · asked by SARA A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would ignore it as I am not sure why she is crying. Some people like to be left alone when they are angry or sad. I am one of them.
2006-11-13 16:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by GOAL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you said guys only but sorry I need to respond. I know that everyone get depressed every once in awhile, but if it is a problem you need to tell someone and get some help. As for being ugly....I don't believe that. I think you need to bring up your self esteem and love yourself! I know that you will find a extremly attactive man and he will love you forever!!! Just wait, good things come to those who are patient and wait.....just be happy okay? ( there is nothing sexier than a girl with confidence)
2006-11-10 09:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie Denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello SARA A,
Guys like girls who smile and are fun to be around. They don't want to spend all of their time with drama queens. On the other hand, there's plenty of wolves out there that like to take advantage of girls with self-esteem problems.
There are also guys out there who want to be the white knight, to save and protect some damsel in distress. But, that's a personal issue in itself.
The best thing for you to do is to develop friendships with girls. Pal around with them and then you can meet guys from a better level of confidence. I hope that this helps. Best of luck to you.
--Rick
2006-11-10 09:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF
Which do you want answered, would we ask someone why they were crying or would we apologise for accidentally hitting her?
Can only answer for myself but I wouldn't ignore any woman I saw crying, and would also apologise for accidentally hitting her.
Then again I don't think that's what you wanted, you us want some attention
2006-11-10 09:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how well I know her. If I simplly know her by name, I would at least inquire as to what is wrong. If I know here a bit more I would definitely console her.....but that's just me.
If I accidentally hit her by some odd chance, of course an appology would be forthcoming.
2006-11-10 09:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if I saw a girl crying I would try and comfort her as best as I can.
and I would apologize to her if I accidentally hit her.....even if I only slightly bumped her I would apologize (and sometimes they didn't even notice that I did what I was apologizing for)
2006-11-10 09:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has down days. Don't take it as permanent. Don't validate yourself by the attention that you get from boys. Be proud of who you are and your talents and abilities, not because some guy notices you.
2006-11-10 09:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, actually i did see a girl crying once, who i didnt know and i stopped, and i helped cheer her up, that girl is now my girlfriend. and i wouldnt acidentally hit a girl, but if i did of course i would apoligize, thats the least i could do
2006-11-10 09:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You'll get over it, you just need to start feeling better about youself, onec that happens everyone else will notice. When they start to notice that you have you stuff togather then the guys will be knocking at your door to date you.
2006-11-10 09:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would hold her close to me to make sure she feels comfort and her need of sorrow. Hitting I can't relate to, It's all WRONG!
2006-11-10 09:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by clubmaster300087 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋