he is 18 so cute and he likes me and i like him i dont know if my parents will like it what sould i do . i think i love him
2006-11-10 09:00:45 · 14 answers · asked by morgan f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh dear. You think you love him? What is love, then? You are not yet in a relationship do not go there, yet.
How old you are is important. A lot younger does not tell us much.
By 18 a guy has a few ideas on how to start a relationship, you need to let him start it. If you are too young (>16) please do not do anything with him even if he does start it.
Ask yourself why you want to be with him.
Is it to be the cool girl dating a much older guy? (That's bad).
Is it because he is a guy you have become comfortable with and developed a crush due to the level of familiarity? (Date someone your age with similar qualities, REMEMBER eventually you will get comfortable with them).
Is it because he pays attention to you? (Other guys will eventually).
Is it because you have sincer feelings?
2006-11-10 09:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? This is quite worrying. If you are too young your parents won't approve, and they'll be quite right not to approve. No matter how nice a guy seems, if he's 18 and you're much younger, the situation is not right. Please don't rush into anything and certainly don't let him pressure or persuade you into anything. Try not to see him for a while and see if your feelings change - and I think you should confide in someone close to you who is older. If not a parent then an aunt or a family friend. Be careful, and good luck.
2006-11-10 17:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sinead C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's 18 I would advise against it. The average age in America when boys begin to be sexually active is 14-16. Unless you want to become a statistic for teen moms stay away! Also if he's 18 and can't find some one his own age to date, it's probably because the older women get the more respect they'll demand from their partners. It sounds like he preys on young girls because he has no respect, and only physical desires.
2006-11-10 17:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u? When I was 14 I went out with an 18 yr. old.
I eventually ended up dumpin him cuase he became a total jerk.
If u are appropriate dating age and he is respectful ur parents should be ok with it. My sista was 15 and her b/f 23 wen they got together and they still r together. Best of luck 2 u.!!
2006-11-10 17:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes 18... and ur more than 4 yrs younger... I'd say move on .. but i've fallen 4 guys like that 2
2006-11-10 17:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by UrSecretLover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres something called STATUARY RAPE. Do you want him to go to jail? I highly doubt at your young age you know what love between a man and a woman is. I don't think he "likes" you the way you "like" him, if he has any smarts anyway. Ever hear of getting knocked up? Oh yes, it can happen to you too.
2006-11-10 17:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by All I have to do is dream... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY you want to send him to Jail, if you love him dont talk to him till you are 18, othewise he can be in trouble anytime.. if your parent dont like him.. he has to registrated as a sex offender for the rest of his life...
2006-11-10 17:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time shorty. if you aren't older than 16 than you should not get involved with an older guy. you can't love him, that is not a question. you are maybe deeply infatuated with him. take your time there will be other cute guys.
2006-11-10 17:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Like, 12?
2006-11-10 17:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy is as old as the girl he feels.
2006-11-10 17:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋