can you have friendship after love??

Question

can we be real friends again after we broke up?

Maya

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Answer 1

Yes of course you can i know this through experience....but be prepared that one day you could easily end up sleeping together...don't ask it always seems to happen....it's a bit like unfinished business....but yes friendship can blossom, and you may even become the best of friends.

Answer 2

I think this is a personal choice, but my answer is emphatically..."ABSOLUTELY NOT". Once you break up with someone, it is next to impossible to ever get over them or move on if they are still in the picture at all. I have never even spoken to an ex after we broke up, let alone remained friends with them. You broke up for a reason (usually incompatibility). Why force something that obviously isn't meant to work? It only leads to trouble.

Answer 3

Maya I totally believe it is possible :) but it will depend on the maturity of the couple and why they broke up. My best male friend is someone I dated for a couple of years and it just didn't work out and we broke up, however, there is such a intimate familiarity and trust between us we have remained friends, discuss each others relationships, and it is strictly real friends.

Good Luck~

Answer 4

You can but you'll feel awkward, I'm friends with my ex and we were together for a year and a half, and now I'm with my current boyfrind so far for a year, but I sometimes feel weird being all mushy with my boy when my ex is around, I don't know why even though I don't like him that way anymore and also I was looking into his cell phone with all these girls pictures half naked, I mean I don't care an all but it did kinda bother me. I just feel that him being your ex you both have feelings for each even after your relationship and it's ganna affect both of you if you see each other with someone else. But just deal with it! I just think you shouldn;t either because your boyfriend might also get jealous if your still talking to your ex, come on who wouldn't. I started to stop talking to my ex so my boyfriend won't think anything that I still like him.

Answer 5

It really depends on the both of you. How long have you dated. Were you really in love? Why did you break up? It makes a difference. Hopefully both of you still want to be friends. SOmetimes it is hard to see someone you love and you cant be with them. It really depends on the situation.


Best of luck

Answer 6

Yes you can. Only if both of you are over the relationship. It will never work if one is not really over the other one... you'll have jealousy and it will never be a real friendship. If you're both mature and over each other, it will work out great.

Good luck.

Answer 7

I don't think you can be friends with a person after you break up with them, because you're used to seeing them as something more than a friend, and maybe you can, but it's really hard, and you could both end up getting hurt.

Answer 8

yeah i think you can have friendship after love. i mean i have this one guy friend who was very close with this one girl and now there more than friends . and they make a nice couple. haven't you been watching television they do the same thing everyone else would do.

Answer 9

Yes you can be friends after a break up. If you two have an understanding that what you had is gone and can still give each other advice, that's good.

Answer 10

It is not easy but it can be. Just because u r not lovers anymore doesn't mean you r not friends. Love and friendship have their own concepts. By the way we aren't animals, so we suppose to act as civilisate people.