2006-11-10 08:46:24 · 33 answers · asked by smarto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing at all wrong with that, you just like more mature women.
2006-11-10 08:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Red Flag alert!!!! Make sure he is divorced first, because if you get to heavily involved, then he might come to you and say that he is getting back together with his ex, after she finds out you are dating him, she will try and pull all the strings to make sure he does not see you. It is normal to feel love sick, but make sure he is getting a divorce before you see a man who is only seperated, in a blink of an eye, they can get back together!!!! I would talk to him and tell him how you feel, and ask him, since it is your right to see when he is getting a divorce and if he does not know, or can't give you a definate answer, then you know he is in no hurry for a divorce.
2016-05-22 03:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with this. You are just trying to find yourself.
I was once in love with a man who was almost old enough to be my father. He was the only person I could connect to. He made me feel special, unlike other men my own age. I really felt a connection with him. I still miss him to this day. The only problem was, he was married with two teenage children in college. He wasn't ready to leave his family. How's that?
I think we all yearn for our soul-mates. Sometimes, however, it's not the ideal situation. Sometimes we just have to deal with the hand we are dealt. How can we find happiness in that? You just have to be true to yourself. Stand up for what you believe in and don't let anyone convince you otherwise. Look for people with the same morals as you. It might take time, but you will find them......Have faith.
2006-11-10 09:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kimberly R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are of legal age there is no problem. My husband, soul mate, and the love of my life for over 12 years is 18 years younger. We have no problems. In fact, I didn't believe a relationship could be this good.
Follow your heart.
2006-11-10 08:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by chillsister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My favorite quote is "To thine own self be true" which means your personal preferences are yours and you have the right to fall in love with anyone you choose. It's really nobody else's business. I don't understand why you think you're sick because of this. Stop worshipping the god of other people's opinion!! Enjoy your life with whomever pleases YOU.
2006-11-10 08:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smarto,
I have always been attracted to older women and I certainly never thought that I was sick in any way. Go with your instincts in life and do what makes you happy.
TDCWH
2006-11-10 08:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by TDCWH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number and there is nothing wrong with 5-10 years older now if you said 40 years than yah your sick!!
2006-11-10 08:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by notyochic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you arent sick, you just have a thing for older ladies. thier much more mature and maybe you find them more attractive in many ways. And younger girls can be so naive.
2006-11-10 08:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by Aneesa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being attracted to or dating older people, my bf is 26 yrs older than me :)
2006-11-10 09:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sick? Don't be so dramatic and hard on yourself. You problably like older women for the same reason that younger women like older men.....There more mature.
2006-11-10 08:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are! my boyfriend is 6 years younger than me,older women know what to do and how to do it!!!lol
2006-11-10 08:49:26 · answer #11 · answered by Jacqui 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋