Theres this girl whose friends begged me to ask her to homecoming so i did. Durign that period of time i was really nice and sweet to her. Shortly after the event, i started hearing that she was talking crap bout me. I felt un appreciated for all the attention and kindness I gave that loser so yesterday i heard more crap and totally bitched her out bad and went as far as making fun of her fatness and stupidity. Today her friends handed me a note criticizing me back about how my friends arent real and that she way better looking than me, and crap like that. Now i can really ***** her out even more after this but im reluctant cuz after this shes gonna hev no friends since i can always tell her how her friends talk crap behind her back and my friends never do. Should I do that or just take it up the *** and leave it alone?
2006-11-10 08:46:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont cause more drama. high school is bad enough. laugh in her face and turn the other cheek
2006-11-10 08:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by MsPacman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen HS is hard and so is growing up. You don't really know that she was talkin smack about you. All hearsay. So what if she was. A unpopular girl gets to talk bad about a popular guy how often??? She's just trying to b popular by downing you. Let her have her moment of glory. In her way. You don't know what kind of pain or thoughts really are going through her head. Mybe you should be nice and ask her whats up. Who knows u may find a great person.
2006-11-10 16:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by for_runner0 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As hard as it might be, and believe me I know it is, you should confront her in front of everyone and tell her that you thought she was a nice girl, and that you've now realized that she is trash, and that you prefer women with class and tact. Hint that you could say somethign VERY mean about her, but that you are a better persona nd have decided not to stoop so low as to be the kind of trash-talking person that she is.
Tell her women like her end up miserable and alone, and that she should get a life.
2006-11-10 16:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.Gaddis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is immature, if I were u, I would ignore her, but hey. I can't stop u. She sounds like she's a *****. Going around saying
"Look what I made this popular guy do!" I'd leave it alone personally. She isn't worth ur time.
2006-11-10 16:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave it alone or the two of you are going to go round and round and continue to hurt each other. Eventually your friends and hers might think you guys are being immature and they will get tired of the crap and neither one of you will have friends.
2006-11-10 16:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be the bigger person and drop the whole thing. Telling her that her friends talk crap about her isn't going to get you anywhere. It's only going to make more people mad at you.
2006-11-10 16:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why have you asked this same question several different times? All the answers are the same. Leave it be. Ignore her. She's an idiot, and you're a bigger idiot for blowing up at her over something THIS stupid.
2006-11-10 16:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by SassySours 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should leave it alone. If you do something about it you will be lowering yourself to her level. But if you don't you will end up being the better person. It's tough but you will be better off not doing anything.
2006-11-10 16:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be the bigger person and let it go. You're playing a very immature game. And besides, one can never be positive that things aren't being said behind your back. People lie. Even "friends".
2006-11-10 16:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
George A,
Don't keep wasting your time with this girl. There are just to many girls in this world to get hooked up with one thats a nut case. Stop right know and find yourself someone new.
TDCWH
2006-11-10 16:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by TDCWH 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People like that are not worth your time. Don't read any more notes and go on with your life. Ignoring people can be more effective that cussing them out, if done effectively.
2006-11-10 16:50:52 · answer #11 · answered by emmyfair 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋