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I have a crush on someone at work, but I'm wondering if I should continue being friends with him or not.

2006-11-10 08:31:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

17 answers

It's not only okay, it's fun, exciting, and can end up being a deep freindship or relationship.

2006-11-10 08:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Of course it's 'okay' to be friends with a crush.. the only problem is that you might end up falling for him in a bad way and then end up not knowing whether you're a 'friend' or a 'potential girlfriend', and being unsure as to what to do about it - if you're anything like me, at least! :) If you're sure you can handle the emotions involved in unrequited/uncertain love, then go for it. At the very least, you'll have made a good friend. Best of luck.

2006-11-10 16:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sinead C 3 · 0 0

I am.

It can be great in that you get to hang out with someone you really dig, but it can also suck if that person suddenly starts telling you about their own new crush or relationship. Jealousy is an ugly monster, be prepared to confront it.

Good luck!

2006-11-10 16:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by spanier88 2 · 0 0

it's really hard. it depends on how long you've known him, how much you like him, and if you think it could go anywhere. tell him.

if he seems absolutely uninterested, it may be for your best interest to get away because you'll hurt yourself.

My boyfriend was my best friend, and then we broke up. I still have feelings for him, and its really hard to be friends with him since he doesn't have those feelings. He wants my friendship, so I know leaving him would hurt.
If you can't get over him, you probably shouldn't be friends.

2006-11-10 16:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by MsPacman 2 · 0 0

Friendships can turn out to great loves no don't stop being friends with him. The best relationships are friends.

2006-11-10 16:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by duck p 1 · 0 0

Yes

2006-11-10 16:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0 0

Whether you believe it or not, he might be attracted to you too. Stay friends with him and establish a strong friendship. Maybe then you can decide if you really do like him or if it was a one time thing.

2006-11-10 16:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Definitely! But you don't want to be toooooo obvious and hang all over him, get rid of the puppy-dog eyes and just have fun, flirt, laugh, hang out, ya never know what can happen!

2006-11-10 16:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzie_katz_ 1 · 0 0

yeah it's fine to have a crush on someone and still be friends.

2006-11-10 16:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Kaitlyn♥ 2 · 0 0

If he's your crush then how on earth are you just going to be only friends?
Just stab him and get it over with.

2006-11-10 16:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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