Why do people put soooo much pressure on women being thin? I think would that women that are thick are beautiful and should be proud of their body. Same for men because I know that people can put pressure on them too but most of it is for women. Im a little thick but Im healthy and love my body so why cant men look outside their shallow minds and love women of all shapes and sizes?
2006-11-10 08:30:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love your body then that is all that matters, I think that you are a little more self concious then what you say you are.....men do like thicker ladies these days, I mean....just as long as you are not unhealthy they like a little something, ya know! So don't worry about it!
2006-11-10 08:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by TNL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is that men and women can enjoy each other- love handles and all- to very deep levels if they both have the desire. While I may enjoy looking at a muscular man on an everyday basis I prefer an average looking guy that I can be comfortable with. Being healthy is the most important way to be! Look at those pictures of women who look like a skeleton! How sad that their body and whole life has been destroyed in such a way! Women vary in size and shape. Flat chested to extra large breast. Overly thin to plump. Short to tall. Fair to dark. Short hair to long hair. Only a real man is able to look at a woman and say I truly love her just the way she is. Often they look at one woman and some how their brain is so limited that they think all women look just like that one!
2006-11-10 16:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they think it is soo important to be thin because thats what they read in magazines and see every where. And I agree with you, that women should be happy with there bodies. I myself personally am thin but i have problems gaining weight, but i have friends that are thick and they are healthy, but dont like their bodies. i think being a lil thick is alright but you shouldnt let yourself get to far. And like you said men have shallow minds and for them they dont look at women and think with anything but there *****.
2006-11-10 16:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by taytayjomar89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl I with you on that. Yeah I'm slightly thick but that shouldn't stop me from dating. I hate guys that are like that. But it also helps you choose the guys that aren't judgmental and find one who is sweet. I basically ignore them. They're not good enough for me anyway.
2006-11-10 16:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by friendly~face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of guys do like curves..but the important thing to remember is it's about healthy..
sorry, but there is no way that an obese woman is healthy.
now..i myself have curves..and am not skinny..unfortunately, in the past year i have even gotten out of shape..so it's not as beautiful curves as they were..but guys still love it..
2006-11-10 16:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been called fat/ but im not im just pleasantly plump and trust me there are a lot of guys that like there women with meat on there bones/ i used to really hate my body but now im just happy go lucky Cyndi and proud to be me
2006-11-10 16:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first i was like that i only liked skinny looking girls thats all that i would date. but now i am with a bigger sized girl who i love so very much and i don't care if she is big as long as we like each other. my girl is 5 9 and weighs about 190 to 195 she is a bigger girl bout she has my heart and i don't care about size anymore.
2006-11-10 16:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by jam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would be surprised a lot of guys love thick women and I was told the ones that don't like'em can't handle one.
2006-11-10 16:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by matchbox 78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have curves and I like the way I look and guys do too. Are u sure u arent getting attention also? U probably are and just dont realize it.
2006-11-10 16:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men are like that , im skinny but 1 of my frends isnt too skinny but she has a guy thats not 2 skinny either
2006-11-10 16:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋