i havent had a boyfriend for about 3 months now.
i really have been wanting one.
please dont tell me "just wait, he'll come along" because i mean i want to find out how to get a guy to ask me out, or get one to like me.
2006-11-10 08:29:23 · 18 answers · asked by TheWhiteGirl93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go to a bar or other public place and smile at someone give him your number and tell him you put out.
2006-11-10 08:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by nevyn55025 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most attractive thing to me is self confidence. Feeling good about yourself, your body and your life.
The next most attractive thing to me is a girl who lets me know that she is interested in me. The best way is to flirt and tease. Most guys love this and don't let them convince you they don't. Playfulness and flirtation always gets my attention.
Be interested in the things that are interesting to him. Maybe not everything, but find something that you can genuinely be interested in sharing with him that he likes to do.
Put out the vibe to the universe that you are open and available.
Go places that the kinds of guys you would like to date hang out. Bars are probably the best place to find the worst guys. If you want quality, find social activities like hiking, or even church socials if you are into that. Find a local singles group. If you are still in school it is actually easier.
Best of luck!
2006-11-10 16:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by taotemu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going thru the same thing and ya! i cant get any guys 2 ask me out either! Every time i like a guy, he has a g/f so ur just gunna have 2 ask them out...hope this helps
2006-11-10 16:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by BeeBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hmmm coming from a girls point of view, you don't want to appear desperate, so why do need a guy?is it for security, sex? or companionship- Yanno it doesn't have to be a Boyfriend, you can have all kinds of guy friends- don't put yourself on the emotional part of being needy, be yourself.....!
2006-11-10 16:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by fuzzie_katz_ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go places guys are and ask them out. If you don't want to wait then take matters into your own hands
2006-11-10 16:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by needhelp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl. Sorry. Guy's are hard to get through to, start out as friends and work your way up. And honey, 3 months "you poor thing". I HAVEN'T HAD ONE IN, UM.........TRY EVER
2006-11-10 16:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by ♣♥♫kaerF_ratiuG♫♣♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy one from Walmart on Thanksgiving sale
2006-11-10 16:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by Syed R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me know if you want to go out with me.
2006-11-10 16:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lot of guys wont awnser on here 4 ya, try and allow for e-mail and im's youll getr results a lot faster hon,good luck stinger5906,,,,,,,,,,,,
2006-11-10 17:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act natural, not too clingy, or obsessive, and don't be too flirtatious. I've learned from experience!
2006-11-10 16:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by OLPfan93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋