there's this guy that i used to work with... while he worked here we would flirt thru e-mail a lot then he got another job.. well now he still e-mails me and i've offered 'it' up several times and asked him on dates, but he always refuses.. yet he still keeps e-mailing me even after i have stopped flirting so much with him and keep rebuffing the conversation... i'm not trying to be funny but i'm way too cute for this guy anyway so i don't see where he gets off turning me down anyway... i know he's single and hasn't had 'any' for quite some time so what do you guys think? what's this dude's problem?
2006-11-10 08:28:54 · 22 answers · asked by ooh baby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually he has seen me naked - i showed him a pic that was very sexy ... he had a hard on for like an hour
2006-11-10 08:34:59 · update #1
Or the question might be whats your problem? Yeah i know you didn't expect that. it seems your stuck all on you and think no one would dare turn you away> Maybe he see's through your hot body and see;s that your all about you! Maybe he simply want's some one who is not so willing to give it up! It's hard to respect some one who is willing to bed me at first sight>
2006-11-10 08:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't get the hint. Seriously, some dudes literally need it put right in there face especially if your as cute as you say you are. He could be intimidated by that and afraid to move on it eventhough he really wants to. If you want this to happen try coming on a little stronger and if he still doesn't do anything then...well, you tried. Move on.
2006-11-10 08:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by rabblefrk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quick answer "sometimes the hunt is better than the kill" he is prolonging it because what you guys are doing is real turn on for him. How would you feel if you was turned on by dirty talk and all he ever wanted was to be quiet and refused to talk dirty to you. It's the same thing
2006-11-10 08:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by Best answer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just likes emailing you. Just because you're cute and he isn't getting any- you can't take it for granted that he wants you. He is just not interested in doing anything more than chatting with you, for any number of reasons (but probably not gayness.)
Welcome to the Friend Zone. BwaHAHAHA! How does it feel?
2006-11-10 08:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by randomstupidhandle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Number one, is he gay? Number two, he may be intimated by you. Most men are too insecure to handle dating a woman out of their league. When they do get one they say things like "you are too good for me", etc. Next time you pick out a guy you are too cute for make sure he has the confidence to handle it.
2006-11-10 08:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys like it when they're liked and they'll do a lot of things to keep that up. He's trying to draw you out as long as he can and when he really starts losing you, he'll offer "it" up. He's just playing mind games.
2006-11-10 08:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guys problem is that he knows you are way to easy and he wants a little challenge. He knows he can get you whenever he wants, but he wants something that he can work towards. Whne you work hard for something and you finally get it it is way better.
2006-11-10 08:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by unglory2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are his fantasy girl. Perhaps since he is not with you in person, and cannot see your facial expression and tone of voice, he may think you're kidding about your offer. Stop by his new job and ask him to lunch.
2006-11-10 08:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't seen you naked. Send me some pictures, and I'll make sure the problem isn't you.
2006-11-10 08:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by togashiyokuni2001 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, im thinking this guy might be gay, but doesn't want to show it. he might like you as a person but not as a realy close 1 if u know what i mean
2006-11-10 08:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by ilakma3i 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋