I recently had sex with a guy I'm dating for the first time. He orgasmed in under a minute. I don't know exactly how long we actually did it, maybe 30 seconds. He was kind of embarrassed and said he's not usually so quick. So I'm just wondering what is the cause of him orgasming so quick?
2006-11-10 08:27:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably just a bit too excited about being with you for the first time. Guys do it all the time, and they don't mean to do it. He may have had a crush on you for a while prior to you two hooking up, and when the moment finally happened, well.... you get the rest! Probably has no bearing whatsoever on how he usually makes love. I bet if you give him another chance, you'll be pleasantly surprised.
2006-11-10 08:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by dorky_goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's either been a while and he just got too excited too quick..
he's a virgin..
or he's full of S#(T and it really does happen all the time..
so the best way to find out is do it again..and if he's having a hard time controlling make him stop and do the foreplay thing for a while..it helps build control.
2006-11-10 08:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The true reason is he maturb*ates in a hurry instead of enjoying it he rushes it therefore causing him to be quick to orgasm while doing the real thing.You two reach org*asm before intercourse and that should eliminate the problem the second one usually takes forever
2006-11-10 08:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Best answer 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If it's been a while and he was excited that would cause him to orgasm quicky if he was nervous that coul of caused him to orgas quickly but the only person that knows the answer is him.
GOOD LUCK
2006-11-10 08:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by MIA 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes guys orgasim quick because they haven't had sex in a long time, atleast you know hes not a dog.*
2006-11-10 08:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give him another chance if you really like him. He was probably just really nervous. If you haven't had sex with him before there was probably a lot of built up sexual tension that just exploded....very quickly. Practice a bit more ;)
2006-11-10 08:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he hasn't done it in a while. Or maybe he lied and he's always like that. I've been through this myself. And I left the guy. I couldn't deal with someone like that. It wasn't fun for me.
2006-11-10 08:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by imasooite 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just give Mr. Stud another chance.
2006-11-10 09:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by Twisted&Demented 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be because its his first time? he might not be able to hold it in? Not too sure but maybe he knows?
2006-11-10 08:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by xxooxxloulouxxooxx 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
oh my gosh, same thing happened to me v.recently. I couldn't work out what was going on, then I realised that was it! Was quite astonished.
2006-11-10 08:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋