My boyfriend has just broken up with me. I need some suggestions to let him know that i don't care, and i hope he dies. We've been off and on for around 3 years, and everytime he askes me out, i'm stupid enough to say yes, and this time it finally clicked that he has just been using me. So now i need to let him know that he is an asswhole and i don't care about him anymore. (and getting another boyfriend isn't an opption, i can't get many dates.)
2006-11-10 08:24:58 · 17 answers · asked by asprinfree_braindamage_please 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey come on.....just fill it shut it..n forget about it!! those are the code words for it..... i know it becomes hard for we girls to really get over the guy we some how are attached to in some way...
but yet... if he says next time just when he calls tell him u have another date.. come on.. how will he be knowing whether u r really going or not.. and just tell him hey come on i need to get ready.. for it or i am busy now ..and sort of diconnect the phone... don't bother... make ur self feel he is the person you hate so much and u don't bother.. or just think he is a person bothering you when you just don't like him...just think this if u had some one really like that.... and do just that to avoid him....bring ur self the feeling of ..he is some irritating pest...who u realy cannot stand n just run whenever u see him....or talk to him
he will get the answer... then only he would learn to treat you good.. but yet u are gonna treat him the way he treated u all thesse days...
take care
best of luck
2006-11-10 08:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not talk to him, do not see him, do not call him, show absolutely no interest whatsoever in him. If he contacts you, don't call him back. Delete him from any online lists. If you do anything to retaliate against the break up it will just show that you're hurt and that you care. The best reaction is no reaction at all. Believe me, because you have a history he obviously cares about you and if you just keep him out of your life completely that will probably hurt him the most.
2006-11-10 16:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun of coarse you can get another boyfriend there always another !! men are like socks easily replaceable lol!!! but it real nice when you find some good ones huh!! anyways best revenge is happiness move on Hun and do your thing and do it well
!! let your life light shine he will see that and wonder why he left OK ! and don't be so concerned about him your happiness is the important thing now !! OK god bless
2006-11-10 16:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by sadeyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think many of us have been through things like that, but I really do not think it is worth it even to worry about the situation. You have to value yourself as a woman and go on. Try to stay busy talk to friends, go walking, and enjoy life. Take it as a bad experience and do not fall again. Use it as something good in your life you should be happy he is out of your life. Life is to short remember and instead of waisting it thinking about this person, try to do something creative and go foward, do not look back. Start from here and on. You will conquer anything you desire, but you have to really work at it. Good Luck,
2006-11-10 16:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everytime he comes around u should just be happy and u can still say hi to him and stuff but wutever u do just dont be angry all the time cuz then he will think u r miserably and u want him just be happy and act like u are happy that ur single....and dont worry u wont stay single for a long time :D
2006-11-10 16:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by Tonia K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl dont even stress about him he is a major a**hole the best thing to do is move on you will meet someone else sometimes some people take more time than others to meet thier true love remember good things come to those who wait wish you luck!!!!!!
2006-11-10 16:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by aliaunique06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time with your friends and if you haven't, establish strong bonds with them, especially the guys you see as a sibling. Just smile and keep your chin up. If he passes you in the hallway, make eye contact. Show him that you're better off without him and that he's a douche. Laugh it off and he'll be jealously pining for you again.
2006-11-10 16:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a makeover hair nails and face then hang out places you know where he'll be you need to be a bit more confident every1 has the ability to get dates you just need to talk more with to the right people
2006-11-10 16:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by hunni_b21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off don't be negative about yourself that you can't get many dates because you can.If you set your mind on getting one and not on your ex. then you can. Just don't talk to your ex and then maybe he will get the hint that you don't like him anymore!
2006-11-10 16:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to get back at him. USE him for your own personal gain. Give him a taste of his own medicine. Find his weak spot and hit him hard. That's always fun.
2006-11-10 16:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by friendly~face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋