How long did your hubby or partner wait before asking you for sex.
Mine waited 8 days then got me weed so I wasn't in pain.And I don't do drugs.
What do you think ??? is this normal ???????
2006-11-10 08:20:06 · 16 answers · asked by Elle J Morgan 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
He was abusive and made me have it-Like I said I don't do drugs-He was a control freak.
2006-11-10 08:27:16 · update #1
This really pisses me off.
You are bleeding
Your baby is still shaking from the birth trauma
You may be breast feeding - weed??!!
ANd that animal can only think of himself. He is so scared that the baby will be centre stage he does the ugliest stuff just to get attention. I am not sure how you are going to live with this person. Does he care about anything on this planet? Doesn't he love that child? If he does he will care for you both not think of himself.
This is very very far from normal. It is not healthy - he is ignorant and uncaring.
By the way i had c-section, it is considered major surgery and you are in recovery my dear - let the doctor tell him to beck off if you can't.
2006-11-10 09:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by justme 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God poor u , my hubby was great with me didnt pester me at all . We didnt have sex for nearly a yr ( i was 5mths preggers and we had sex but was uncomfortable )so i wouldnt have sex and too be honest after birth of my son just didnt have any interest we finally had it may this yr but i have just had no sex drive until this month (November) and done it twice so far lol, that alot for me considering . And your partner/hubby shouldnt of forced u i had a c section and was told to wait for at least 2 wks and to take it easy for 6wks . I think your hubby /partner was selfish making u feel u had to satisfy him there is otherways u can do that without him getting u drugs to help the pain .
2006-11-10 08:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sam3103 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i had an emergency c-section after 6 days of nearly there labour! my midwife advised me not to have sex until i had my stitches out and she had given me the ok to do so, which was about 5 weeks after my son was born!
i wasnt sore after 3 weeks so i felt ready then but i waited until 5 weeks as she told me and it hurt like hell, so i dont know how you did it at 8 days!
my partner is very caring and loving, he wasnt thinking about sex he was more concerned about me and his newborn son than filling his own needs!
i think you should call a psychiatric ward and ask them to admit your hubby/partner!
whatever you do dont start smoking weed it wont help you or your baby!
get away from this guy and never go back he isnt worth yours or your babys love!!
2006-11-10 11:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by paballaba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? It sounds to me as if you have low self esteem to be putting up with such an ***hole. I don't think he really cares about you or loves you. Hopefully one day you can get the courage and the strength to leave this jerk. He could have seriously hurt you. I have had 3 and my husband has always waited until I was ready-even when we were 19 with our first baby.
2006-11-10 08:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I had a c-section with my first child. My husband waited about 8 weeks before he began talking about sex. Eight days is WAY too early. That could do some damage. I bet you still had after-birth bleeding.
He should have waited....he could at least have masturbated or asked for oral sex.
2006-11-10 08:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to run, don't walk, away from this guy. That is disgraceful! I am worried for your safety. I wasn't even thinking about sex until about 8 weeks after my c-section. My husband was very loving and understanding. Besides, when you're not sleeping and up all night with a newborn baby, who wants sex?
2006-11-10 08:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a c section and its been over a year and I still havent had sex! Just because im scared of gettin prego again! But no sorry that is not normal.. 8 days?? You should of still been bleeding.. Ewwl.
2006-11-10 09:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by Nellz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No definitely not. Thats men for you eh? C section is a major operation and its usually advisable to wait till stitches/staples have been removed. I know my mates midwife told her to wait at least 10 weeks. Dont be pushed in to it, wait till you feel well enough. Your human not an object for sexual pleasures!! Your health visitor would be best placed to advise you, as everyone heals differently, and she knows you best.
2006-11-10 08:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is selfish!!! He should have waited at least one month. What does he think having a baby is....eating a piece of cake!!!! What a selfish brute. Nooooo he is NOT normal!!! He is a sicko! Dont start on drugs once you are into that it will be difficult to get out of it.
2006-11-10 08:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I had an emergency c-section with my last pregnancy and although i cannot remember how long after i know for sure it was when i was ready . What you described sounds as filthy as rape , glad ur well rid of him !
2006-11-10 09:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋