2006-11-10 08:19:35 · 12 answers · asked by gym_kat_94 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you don't want to jeopardize the friendship....Just ask him or her out.
2006-11-10 08:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I am very good friends with a woman that I would love to see otherwise, but I don't want to risk the deep friendship that we have by entering into a relationship, breaking up at some point and totally losing her out of my life. It is a dilemma.
2006-11-10 16:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by cabjr1961 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you are always scared that it will hurt your friendship.
You really enjoy them as a friend and you do not want to do anything that will endanger that relationship. On the other hand, you wish to move the relationship to a higher level. You are scared that they do not/ will not feel the same and it will strain your current friendship. It can be very tough.
2006-11-10 16:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by Cid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're afraid that the person doesn't want to go out with you as "something more", and you don't want to risk losing the friendship you already have. But I think you should try! If you really are interested in your friend, go for it...
Good luck!!
2006-11-10 16:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by deejay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They MAY interpret it as a desire to take the relationship to a higher level which they may or may not feel comfortable about. You know this. That's why it is hard.
2006-11-10 16:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuz u r afriad they like u more as a freind then a crush.its hard to see how they feel becuz ur close and they're nice to u and chill wit u.but u aint sure if they just take ya as freinds rather then gf and bf
2006-11-10 16:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by *~Love?~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the reason y it is hard is because u don't want to be let down if the person says no
2006-11-10 16:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by chulo272003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause there is a chance that u might ruin a friendship, in a break up or something like that..
2006-11-10 16:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by mtty3500vadja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because they know you so well and you don't want them to say no if you have to see them everyday
2006-11-10 16:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the fear of losing a great friend when you get a no
2006-11-10 16:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by chastityelizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋