She geting a bit heavy and we are not that compatible. She likes clean living holy joe type thing and though I aint a bad guy I do like to party and have the occassional beverage. I like her but shes too "nice" if u know what I mean? Answers appreciated especially from females.
2006-11-10 08:19:00 · 12 answers · asked by h2rot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry I meant heavy in loved up not weight. Im not that shallow
2006-11-10 08:33:30 · update #1
Get rid of her by all accounts she could do better!
2006-11-10 14:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay Mr. Jerk. First of all weight should not matter when you care/love someone. If your personalities are that different then I suggest you sit down and have a talk with her. Sounds like she is trying really hard to make you a nice home and happy and you still need to grow up and get out of the "party stage". TRUST ME, it gets old and leads to nowhere. Think about that before you lose something that sounds pretty good. Good Luck!
2006-11-10 16:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by Harleygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if you can admit that the two of you are "not that compatible"....I say jump ship. If you try to change her, or the other way around...someone will always be miserable...Keep looking...you will find the girl for you...one that also likes a drink and a good party here and there!
2006-11-10 16:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by amanda r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean 'bit heavy' by putting on weight or trying to deepen the relationship?
If it's the first one, you're a shallow ***, but if it's the second then I say you let her know who you are. If she is still into you and you're into her...then cool.
Of course....it sounds like you really don't like her like that.
2006-11-10 16:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think any person shoudl suffer bad relationship if your not happy with her i think you just tell her and just move on there other people out there see if your not happy the relationship isnt going to go no where and you dont want to hurt her do you just stop the relationship and have a better life some that you are compatible with
2006-11-10 16:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys are just growing apart... it's up to you. It's okay, though that happens, thats what dating is for, we see how compatible we are, by trying on people for size. Haha and she sounds kind of like me... so if I was her I think I would understand if you told me that maybe we just don't have that much in common. Good luck, its up to you...
2006-11-10 16:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by genuine♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont love her dump her. There is no reason to keep her around if ur not that into her and u could be getting something better. The longer u wait the more it will hurt her.
2006-11-10 16:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Find someone who actually enjoys a beverage every now and again. You're bound to find someone new. There are millions out there, there is got to be someone for you.
2006-11-10 16:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by friendly~face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by the way you speak about her and the relationship, she may be better off without you and you without her. Leave her be and get on with your life.
2006-11-11 07:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her, it'll save her the heavier heartbreak later.
2006-11-10 16:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should break up wit her just becaus ethe way talk bout her
2006-11-10 16:22:30 · answer #11 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋