I sure am open minded, I have dated around 34 men in the last two years and they have all left me, and I am TIRED of it. I am SICK of being humuliated and having to tell people I can't keep a man past TWO weeks. I am sick of being embarrassed and alone and people asking "what happened to that guy?"
I am sick of guys getting my hopes up, telling me how wonderful and beautiful I am, begging for my number, and then abandoning me! I am TIRED of it. This last guy was true love, and NO MORE. I didn't think he'd be like the others. I have never in my life cried for two months straight, maybe 2 days, but never this long.
I am going out tonight looking HOT, and I will reject every guy that comes up to me, I have even been mean to the guys at church and I don't care, this society has done nothing to encourage men to treat women good, not even the church, I owe this world NOTHING. Men really can't believe the new me! Any girls ever try this before?
2006-11-10 08:15:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to hear you're having a bad time. If I were you, I wouldn't take men too seriously for a while. Go out, have a good time. Let them entertain you by telling you all of the things they think you want to hear. Date several men at a time. Don't get attached just have fun with it. Or maybe try dating a different type of man than the ones you've been dating. Cross different barriers, step outside of the box. Don't seek out relationships, just relax and have fun!
2006-11-10 08:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tkatinpdx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are confident in yourself and don't lose yourself in a realtionship I think you can find that man you are searching for. Do give everything to a man right away because then they lose interest fast. Don't be mean and reject all men now because you could be rejecting the good one.
Could it be the types of guys you are dating? Remember be yourself and do not give all right away, keep them on their toes and have to win and work foryour love.
2006-11-10 08:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by schell_75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i truly believe men today have been raised by a pack of wolves. Ive experienced some of what you've described, they build you up to let you down. they lead you to believe they are interested and then nothing. and many are cowards; they cant tell you in person they are moving on; they just stop calling. many men are jerks.
but I'm optimistic, the good ones are out there.
2006-11-10 08:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, a woman can abusive also. Especially the really mean bull dykes!
Maybe you have to change the places you go to and stop falling for the same type. Not every guy is the same.
2006-11-10 08:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Joe S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant say I have. Maybe you rush into things too quick with men. My suggestion is to give up men for good and find yourself a women.
2006-11-10 08:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been single for 3 years and I love it.
2006-11-10 08:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello..get some self respect..dont worry about hese men..do you take care of yourself..the right one will come to you...dont look..just take some time off from men
2006-11-10 08:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,, 34 men,,, they cant be the same ,, you must find the fault in you , just be yourself
2006-11-10 08:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋