Why do guys even ask you out if they don't want you? How come when you treat them good, then end up falling for a girl who doesn't even want them or pays attention to them, and then act like they can't stand to live without her. What's so wrong with you? Don't men realize handicapped men would give anything to have a nice girl look at them? What would they do if they could never get a girl again? Then they would be begging for a nice girl to come there way. Why do guys even approach you just to break up with you?
2006-11-10 08:05:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen NNNY, I will not tolerate that blame the victim CRAP. Go ahead and say it's all my fault. Next you will be blaming the old lady for carrying the purse instead of blaming the robber for lacking the morals to steal the purse. I am tired of blaming the victim. I will have NONE OF IT!
2006-11-10 08:26:08 · update #1
Do the same to him, totally ignore him and go further, walk in front of him with someone and just be engaged in a conversation and not notice him.. Then...forget him forever.
Your turn for love will come with he right person, just be patient and pray to God for His blessing on your life.
2006-11-10 08:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by EVEI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason that a lot of girls go after the bad boys. It's all about the chase, the chase is the fun part. If a girl does everything for the guy, he gets bored...
I feel sometimes, guys all have a little ADD in all of them...they get bored easily...they need to be kept interested.
For instance...when he calls, don't ALWAYS be available. I don't mean lie to him, but make sure that you have your own life, and are not giving it up for him.
Also, If a guy is approaching you just to break up with you, then he is not worth your time at all. Most guys intentions are not to break up with you right away, if they don't feel it, they don't feel it. You can't get mad about that. You are much better off!
2006-11-10 16:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the whole game of chase. guys want girls who don't want them. the game doesn't normally slow down until one is a bit older (20s) guys like the game. girls don't. once a girl realizes how to play the game back (and i dont mean going after guys that dont want them but actually figuring out the other half of the game - dont call or give into his every wish. make him chase you all the while keeping control while he thinks he has control - thats the game of the girls) such a mess but it does slow down and get better once you find the right guy. just remember - there IS someone out there that wont date you just to break up with you. its just a matter of right place, right time.
2006-11-10 16:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This comment is blatently sexist... My girl is the nicest thing on this planet, and I'd never leave her for all the money in the world... So, why would I leave her for some slut who doesn't want me or doesn't pay attention to me? Your vision of men is flawed somewhere, and if that be the case, then the problem is with you, and not with men.
2006-11-10 16:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like that have issues, probably going back to childhood and their relationship with their mother. Don't waste another moment thinking about someone like that. Move on. There really are emotionally healthy men out there.
2006-11-10 16:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by chillsister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to suck it up and realize that you have to move on. He picked that girl over you and all the shÑt you talk can't change that fact. He just wasn't that into you.
Sometimes, people should STOP blaming others and grow up.
2006-11-10 16:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because their dumb they cant tell the difference between a girl and another girl plus they might of thought the other girl was more their type just saying
2006-11-10 16:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by lila m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same like girls we like the competitions not just know we have someone.
2006-11-10 16:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be Jerks! Simple as that!!!! They're not worth dating anyway.
2006-11-10 16:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by friendly~face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are the questions I ponder at night...
2006-11-10 16:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by luva_lotta_fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋