K, i seriously like my best friend's boyfrined and i think he may like me back...i can't stop thinking about him and i feel really guilty and she already knows that i like him...wat if he dumps her and asks me out?!
2006-11-10 07:56:01 · 9 answers · asked by BeeBee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well is your BFF really serious about this guy? If he is and he dumps her and asks you out you should really think of how your friend would feel and what she would do in your situation. If she wouldn't be selfish and say no even though she REALLY likes this guy then you should too. But if she would do the selfish thing then, just trust your gut and heart. Even though it may cause you pain would it be worth loosing a friend over a guy. There are other guys out there but there will never be another one like your friend. So that's another question to ask your self is this guy worth loosing my BFF over? Sometime you have to stop and think about other peoples feelings other than your own. So even if you really like a guy is he worth more than your friendship? Answer these questions and you will most likely get your answer. After you answer these questions sleep on it then ask then the questions to yourself again and if the answer remains thew same then that is your answer. If it's a different answer then you have some major problem to fix out.
2006-11-16 10:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by mjhsksteeves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend are you. My ex husband left me for my so called best friend. How would you feel if you put the shoe on the other foot. What I mean by that put your self in your best friends place. Friends don't take other friends mate that is so wrong. I wouldn't want a friend around my husband if I knew she really liked him. And I don't see where you are such a friend wanting you BFF boyfriend. There is a thing called MORALS!!!!!!!!
2006-11-10 08:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! :) I've had this problem before! I totally know what you are going through. No matter what, friends (especially best friends) should stick together! There are MILLIONS (literally! ;) ) of guys out there and a lot fewer best friends! Stay with your gal pal! Who knows if this guy won't dump you for one of your ohther friends a little later on!
I lost one of my bestest friends and a guy because I didn't let my friend and her guy be together. Losing two is worse than losing one!
Take Care and good luck!!
2006-11-10 08:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by Smitty#7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pair of highway ladies to circulate to his place and ask for the money he promised the different evening. or merely positioned your foot the place the sunlight do not shine. If I had him here i might shove a baseball bat up his you realize what and make him look like a popsicle. take care and get a sparkling boyfriend dave
2016-11-23 14:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by hume 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then u kick him square in the nuts and tell him to f*** off cause u want no part of a guy that is dating YOUR BFF to be looking at other girls... u don't think he won't do that 2 you? don't be a fool
2006-11-10 07:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Amelia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you get a bf and prob. loose a friend. if the bf is more important then keep flirting and dont tell him no. if the freind is more important tell him you dont have any feelings for him and that he should stop flirting with you.
which is more important? bc i highly doubt that you can have your cake and eat it too in this situation
2006-11-10 08:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by yep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then obviously your really not her best firend...you dont do that crap with your so called bff boyfriend/exboyfriend..if i was her i would kick both of you to the curb she deserves a better friend and boyfriend...
2006-11-10 08:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Nette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw babes, dont go out with him or **** him, she's ur best friend and he's a guy, its more boys out here, boys comes 100 miles going north, best friends dont. so just think about it, b4 you make any moves
2006-11-10 08:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by SweetRedz05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not go out with him.that would be mean to your bff.tell him no.
no guy is worth losing your bff over.say no.you have to controle yourself.
2006-11-10 08:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by CC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋