You always hear about how "nice guys finish last" but what about "nice girls"? Why is it that no one ever recognizes that nice girls always seem to lose out, too? I'm a nice girl and it frustrates the hell out of me. Maybe I should sleep around, lie and manipulate? geez...
2006-11-10 07:48:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nice girls dont finish last. Nice girls get married, have a nice home with a two car garage, and kids. Bad girls get used and abused.
When on the prowl for love, men are like animals on the hunt. We generally want the nice healthy gazelle, but sometimes its easier to pick off the young, sick and limping warthog.
2006-11-10 07:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by christopher_j_steward_24 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The people that sleep around, lie and manipulate only seam like they are ahead.
Stop and think if they could truly ever trust someone. All they know are lies, and deceit; and would believe everyone else is the same. Sooner or later people figure them out and leave them, so they usually don't have anyone in their lives.
If you stay true to yourself you will win out in the long run. You will have true friends and be able to truly love other people, and be loved by them.
If you are not true to yourself, you would start to hate yourself. Self loathing is not good, I know from past experience.
2006-11-10 07:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's not nice guys (girls) finish last, it's nice guys (girls) finish best. The thing you have to understand is that what you think you're losing isn't good enough for you. But you don't realize that until time passes and you look back and say "I'm so glad I didn't...."
2006-11-10 07:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I hear ya. But you don't have to sleep around. I'm nice, but I am a little mean to the guys I talk to. I dln't sleep around, but for some reason, the more you hold out and the meaner you are the more they want you. Good luck!
2006-11-10 07:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People go through phases in life and when you maintain your person hood, the people in your age bracket appear to act like monkey's. It is nothing wrong with you, you are just ahead of all of the monkeys that are around you. You should always be yourself and nice to people and you will have a great life with great people. As grandma always said "keep on livin" and you will find out. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-10 07:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by jman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that would be a mistake.
The fact that nice girls are rare means those of us who love them treasure them all the more when we find them.
I should know. I married a nice girl.
It's true that the world doesn't appreciate virtue, but you don't need the world to appreciate you. You just need one man who will.
Stay nice. He'll find you soon enough.
2006-11-10 07:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by Dean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I"m a nice girl and i found the guy i'm going to marry. It's just a saying you will find someone don't turn yourself into a whore. Then no guy would respect you.
2006-11-10 07:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by bsigno21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if you finish first or last? What really matters is if you gave your everything during the race, and if you enjoyed it. The people who are first, walk away with a prize. The people who come last, walk away with a lesson.
It's up to you to decide which one is more important.
2006-11-10 07:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl dont do that...there is a guy who just wants a good girl, someone who will love him and make sure he is happy in the bedroom, ya know what i mean. Eventually you will run right into this person. You'll see
2006-11-10 07:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup... you know how many times i thought, "ya know, i should be a stripper and just make a lot of money for a month or two"
but then i remember i dont have a stippers body. or coordination.
but yes, you are right. nice girls get completely overlooked. no one ever evens sees us
2006-11-10 07:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋