i bumped into an old friend from school recently,i recognised her straight away as i used to fancy her but i never had the courage to ask her at school. well anyway, i told her that she used to be at my school,she sort of remebered me but she was in a hurry so i couldn't talk to her much.then last week we met again at a coffee bar,she started talking to me about our school days ,etc, in the end she asked me if i had a g/f i said no.she gave me her phone number and asked me to ring her so we could both go for a drink.but i have a g/f and i don't know wot to do as turning down my old school friend whom i never had the pleasure of dateing is a chance to good to miss. shouls i cheat on my g/f for her?
2006-11-10 07:41:10 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't you will only hurt her feelings
2006-11-12 04:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by the _reporter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should break up with your girlfriend and then go out with this other girl.
See, if you cheat on your girlfriend, your an a s s. If then the girl you're seeing finds out that you lied to her and do have a girlfriend, your a bigger a s s. Usually, this means you're gonna end up alone. Both girls will hate you and hopefully, you'll feel like the a s s you are.
Now, play this fairly and minimal pain will be induced. You will have represented yourself as a standup guy for the most part and there ya go.
2006-11-10 07:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the girlfriend, man--don't disrespect her by cheating on her. You obviously don't love her or aren't ready to settle down and are curious about what else is out there. Give the other girl a shot, but realize that you are taking a risk, because if things fall through with you two and you want your "girlfriend" back, the chances of it happening aren't guaranteed.
2006-11-10 07:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Tgrman80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you realy feel like you are missing out on something by not going out with this girl, then do the right thing and break up with your girlfriend before hand, dont be just another heartless cheater.
it will hurt your gf a lot less if you tell her the truth and end it rather that decieving her. how would you feel if she did the same thing. why should you get to have both? and if you wouldnt be upset with your gf doing the same then why are you with her in the first place.
just try to be moral here
2006-11-10 07:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by mary j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a guy , let,s face it .anyone want,s you to drop your girlfriend.
well , it,s not like that.
first if yo really want to do that , just say your g/f that it,s not the same anymore or you feel something strong with someone else's.
say something because if it was to be with you I'm pretty sure that you wouldn't,t like it.
do your math counts.
first you have a girlfriend that look likes she true with you.
second you have a person that you don't now if is the best thing for you.
yes , you like her ,but that,s it.
love and affection is different, make sure you now that.
if you still want to break out whit your g/f don't tell no one told you that maybe is an illusion that you are running for.
well no matter the choice you make , i hope is the best one for you. because if is not, then my friend you are gonna pass for a few " dry days".
Orbytall
2006-11-10 07:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See your lacking morals. Why cant you do the honorable thing and just be a man and say look ,... I want to be with someone else. Breaking up is hard.enough .. How would you feel if you found her cheating on you... What if she read the post... And how do you think the new girl is going to feel ... once a cheater .. allways a cheater... DUDE do the right thing... break up ... then date the new girl .. by doing the right thing... you save your honor.. if there is any left...
2006-11-10 08:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by zachs mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell No!!! obviously if your willing to cheat on her, then you dont care if you hurt her or not. So break up with her. She dosent deserve to be hurt like that. If you think a date with the friend from school is too good to miss. Then end it with your gf, but dont hurt her. Just remember, maybe that girl isnt the same as she was from school, maybe its not worth it, but maybe it is. Just make up your mind, and DO NOT CHEAT!
and also think of it like this: would you want her to cheat on you??? you probably wouldnt, so why do it to someone else, even though you wouldnt want it to happen to you.
2006-11-10 07:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? She is your old friend? but she only sort of remembered you? Sounds funny? So, basically you want to lie to both of them? Sounds like the beginning of a wonderful relationship and I hope you get the same honesty back you are showing both of them. NONE! If you are even considering it you don't deserve the g/f you already have. She should dump you and find an honest guy.
2006-11-10 14:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by Becky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dummy, you shouldn't even have a gf if you're wanting to still play the field. Why don't you just explain to your gf that you're not ready for a relationship because, well....you aren't. You want to have your cake and eat it too, but that's not gonna happen. Would you mind if your gf went out and screwed around witha guy she bumped into that she went to school with?
2006-11-10 07:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by jirstan2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you like it if you would love with someone and you found out that they run into an old friend and they cheated on you that would devastate you. How dare you think of hurting your girlfriend if you do I pray you get AIDS and suffer for a long time your a jackass
2006-11-10 07:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was cheated on by a man i loved, and if you want to break her heart go ahead, but if you care about this woman you wont. In the long run it WILL come back to haunt you and you WIll regret it. In the end you will feel worse, to cheat or not to cheat... IS that even a question???
but thats on you!
2006-11-10 07:46:49 · answer #11 · answered by samantha w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋