rebound? how long do they last? what is she thinking?

Question

i dont understand how it is possible to get out of a good 2 year relationship and be dating someone else 2 weeks later . . . we broke up for no reason because she "wanted to date around" and was dating basically the first guy that showed interest 2 weeks later . . . .they are still together now but she has been calling/texting/emailing me every 1,2,3 weeks atleast but i have not answered anything from her since june and she is still doing it . . . . is this guy a rebound? and what is going on, why is she trying to contact me like this?

Answer 1

That guy is TOTALLY a rebound and after seeing what else is out there, she probably wants you back. Only small caution I'd say is that she could be using you as a "back up" because she wants to have you as an option just in case.

Most likely, she just wants you back though and realizes that you are what she wants.

Answer 2

i used to have a friend that did that, she was with this guy for almost 2 years and they were engaged and everything, they broke up and not 2 weeks later she was dating this idiot of a guy, i figured it was a rebound but she stayed with him for 3 months then married him just recently, she still emails text and talks to her ex on the phone on a regular basis, also back when her and i hung out whenever there was trouble she called him not her bf/ i really dont know whats going to happen with her b/c he ended her and i's friendship abt 2 weeks before the wedding and i havnt talked to her since,

good luck and keep your head up

Answer 3

again? you reported it, she dates the first guy that confirmed interest and they are nonetheless mutually for therefore long as she will be able to enable it to flow on or if this rebound guy develops a backbone and sees her for what she is "a person". no human being will call/textual content/digital mail somebody else as a lot as she has if her new courting replaced into going nicely. in my opinion, there is not a lot of a courting there between those 2. a real courting contains 2 those who're attracted to being in a unmarried. she shouldn't favor to look else the position; and that is what she is doing by contacting you. again, in case you imagine this she is easily worth even as then call, otherwise ignore it and forestall ask your self about the loser shes with.

Answer 4

This guy is rebound sometime rebounds can last only a couple days or i think a month max. And maybe she just wanted to take a break to make sure she wanted to be with you. So maybe answer on of her messages and see what she has to say and maybe you will get back together if thats what you want.

Answer 5

she hasnt been happy with you for a while women dont just leave for no reason. she wants to have her fun you are both probably young. she still wants you there as a security thing incase things go wrong or maybe when shes had her fun she will want you back.
forget her. move on. sorry to sound cold.

Answer 6

Dont answer her emails,the girl is nothing but trouble,if you
did nothing wrong and she just left,then forget she ever existed
and go on with your life.And if you do decide to answer her to see
whats up you'll be the yo-yo

Answer 7

sounds like this girl is a straight up whore. if she moved on that quickly, you better believe she was screwing other guys behind your back.

you should hit and split it fool. your better off without that skeez.

Answer 8

let her know she screwed up and it's too late, she should have thought about you back in the beginning

Answer 9

Why not talk to her and find out.

Answer 10

She wasn't ready for commitment...you were.