Is there ever a good enough excuse to kill yourself?

Question

I really want to know. I know most people will say there is not but I feel like there is. What if you've been physically, sexually, and emotionally abused plus your mother's dead? Does God care about any of that? Do you go to hell no matter what?

Answer 1

no. no matter how you try to justify, there will never be a good excuse.

if there is ONE person who cares about you, that is the worst thing you could do to them

Answer 2

Don't make any major decisions, including killing yourself, while you feel this low. You might try contacting one of the online abuse counseling organisations, like the link below, or better still, a face-to-face session with someone in your area, which you should be able to find in the yellow pages.

I read somewhere that the basis of any good relationship is trust. If you've been abused, then some of the most important relationships in your life have been shattered by someone betraying your trust. That makes it difficult, but not impossible. to trust anyone ever again. Talk to the counsellor and existing friends about how you can form trusting relationships with new friends, people of the opposite sex, etc.

I'm sure your mother wouldn't want you to harm yourself.

Answer 3

Of course God cares about that, and yes, to the man who said he isn't, he IS in fact real and cares about you.
God is with you and may not answer you or make everything better the way you want or the pace you want.
There IS an after-life and if you kill yourself it is God's choice to where you go. No person on earth can answer that question.
There is no good reason to kill yourself, you can get help. Go to a sychiatrist. Talk to a friend. If you're being sexually, physically, and emotionally abused get away from the people who are doing it. Talk to an adult you trust.

Answer 4

The problem with killing yourself is that it is permanant. There are no do overs. Kind of a stupid way of finding out if you will burn in hell. You are not alone. Many of us have been abused. Here is what I can tell you. There are 2 kinds of people. Survivors and dead people. Which one do you want to be. Me I am a survivor. I hope you will be one too. Get some help and remember your Mother. She would want you to live and be someone and for that matter so would I. Good Luck

Answer 5

Everyone has seen difficulty in their life, everyone! Some more than others, of course, but your difficulties are not the things that determine the outcome of your life, it's how you deal with those problems. Ultimately excuses only matter to humans, they make no difference to God. God created right and wrong, then gave us the ability and responsibility to choose. Our choices determine our future. God cares about everything, but he doesn't interfere with everything. If he did, there would be no freedom to choose. Suicide is an uncomfortable topic, people hope that it doesn't send the people that kill themselves to hell and that hope is admirable, but probably not fulfilled. Here's why; in order to get forgiveness you must do 3 things. 1. realize and admit that you have sinned. 2. Go to God in sincerity and humility. 3. Ask for forgiveness. The problem with suicide is that most don't realize or admit that suicide is a sin; and how can you go to God in sincerity and humility and ask for forgiveness if you are already dead? I hope that I am wrong, but I don't think that I am.

Answer 6

When you are in a deep, dark state of mind, it is a sort of amnesia from the good times. But happiness will exist again, even if you can't remember it right now. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Even if ones mother is dead, what about other family and friends? You can always run away from where you are and start a whole new life. It is better than death. Go to the emergency room if you need to.

Answer 7

No matter what has happened, there's never a reason to kill yourself. Why should whatever harmed you have the control and ultimately the victory? Anything can be risen above...it's very hard, but it CAN be done. Being abused and not having a mother around isn't a reason to kill yourself. You can't depend on other people (i.e. your mom) to do the healing for you. Only you can push yourself to healing...and only you can hold yourself back. I know...I've been in that situation before and it was a horrid time. I know it feels like there's no other way out of the pain...I know that feeling of hopelessness and despair. But trust me, killing yourself is not the answer. You don't have to be in this pain forever, but you have to work to heal. And God does care...but killing yourself won't allow Him to show you how much He cares. But remember, He doesn't work on our time. We can't rush Him. Rushing Him will only have us miss such important lessons we need to learn along the way. Without those lessons, we fall into the same traps and pits we were in before. It's not God who moves away from us...it's us who moves away from God.

There are many people in this world who are more than willing to help those in your situation...people who truly care. Please seek them out so they can show you how to start your journey to healing.

Answer 8

Yes, you will go to hell. There are two unforgivable sins and that is one of them. I understand that your life may have been rough, but to someone you are the world. It is unfortunate that all of those things happened to you and the people who did them to you should die, but please don't think about killing yourself, seek help. Did you know that most people that have been abused the way that you have, never become "productive citizens" why not prove the statistic wrong and try and overcome the obstacles that have been placed before you. Hold your head high and focus on a life that you can be proud of. Good Luck, things do get better!

Answer 9

No. Even if you have been physically, sexually or emotionally abused. I have been abused sexually and get abused emotionally every single day in my life. Even if your mom is dead, she wouldnt want you to die, would she? There is no good reason to kill yourself, it isnt worth it. Make the most of life, even if it is very hard.

Answer 10

there are millions of reason to want to kill yourself, but in the end, you are going to hurt everyone around you that really loves you. you might think there is no one out there, especially if your mom is dead, but there really are.

besides, think of what you can accomplish if you get past this, you will be a stronger person, you have defeated so much evil already, and you can help thousands of other people get thru the same situations you've been in. if you were abused, someone did that TO you. you didnt deserve it, you didnt ask for it, you didnt WANT it. it was forced on you. you need to fight back. not necessarily at the person who did it to you, but to get back to where you were, it will make you a better person in the end.

as for the whole god thing, sorry, i'mnot religious, but from what i had always been told, if you kill yourself, you go to hell. if thats what you believe in, one more reason to not kill yourself, god has something for you in mind, and your pass experiences will help you thru that. even if you dont relieze it now.

Answer 11

In a suicidal mindset, anything can feel like a good excuse. From a life of turmoil, to a large zit on your nose.
I know it sounds cliche, but things really do come around. It may take some time, and it may be hard. But there will come a point when you cannot even remember your reasons (it feels like you watched them happen to someone else, and doesn't resonate emotionally with you anymore). Try your best to stick it out, life will turn around.