My boyfriend won't go to sleep unless we have sex sometimes i'm tired i dunno how to keep up with him i don;t want him to think i don't love him or i don't want to be with him what should i do? sometimes i feel i can't keep up with him
2006-11-10 07:12:04 · 25 answers · asked by Gina81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with one of the other answers, that is if he just wants sex all the time that is all he is out for. He does not respect you when you tell him no. I think you need to find someone else that will treat you with the respect that you deserve and not use you just for sex.
2006-11-10 07:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
This makes me laugh-
There are alot of women on here saying things like "it s your body" and "don t do it if you don t want to". These women are most probably single and will never keep a man in a long term relationship.
The truth is that once you re in a relationship with a guy then you are there to satisfy each others needs.
You apparently love him but you can t be bothered to open your legs for 10-30 mins at the end of the night then you obviously are not interested in keeping him happy...
Trust me when I say this, if you are are not willing to put the effort in with sex then your relationship will fall apart because men NEED sex.
Lets put things into context here: lets say you want sex once a week and he wants it every day- then why not compromise with him and do it 4 times a week?
Put the effort in if you want to keep him.
Finally, I want you to understand that all men are the same-
You could move onto another one but it s likely that the same thing will happen.
2016-01-18 19:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by paul 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Say your piece to him and tell him to grow up. It will not go away if he leaves it alone now and then. Besides giving it a rest will make it more fulfilling when He is lucky enough to get some. You are not a love slave and do not need to open up every time a ship tries to enter the harbor. He should be adult about it an realize your feelings are important. True love does not require two people to be physical every day. The better the love the less emphasis is on the physical activities.
2006-11-10 07:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The problem is you WANT to make HIM happy when you have to make sure YOU'RE happy too honey. He's said you don't have to have sex every night so don't be afraid to tell him no if your not in the mood. Relationships are about communication and meeting each other half way, so keep that in mind.
2016-05-22 03:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not compatible. Different people have different needs. What's normal for one person, might sound excessive to another. You need to find someone with the same drive as you. And he'll be happier with someone who has a higher drive. I'd suggest this is a bad sign for a long term relationship and you two should consider breaking up and moving on.
2006-11-10 07:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by TechnoRat60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like you started your period. put a pad on if he wants to feel. and when you really start say i don't know i guess it came back. we women change are periods days all the time. some of us have them 2 times and a month. were women.i know these things my man is the same way. once before we sleep and about 2 or 3 in the morning.
2006-11-10 07:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how you feel. don't drag it out, don't let go on longer than it has. If you do, pending on how secure he is. The ending of what he might be considered the "norm" might be more than he can deal with. And for God sakes don't lie. just be honest, and real. It should work out fine. If not, then you've found out just how inconsiderate he is. dope him and find someone your own speed.
2006-11-10 07:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by sebastian o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont give in to sex if you dont want it. You are in control of your own body and NOONE should tell you when or where you should have sex. EVEN YOUR BOYFRIEND. Tell him the truth .. if he loves you he will understand! Maybe you could tell him that you need a break .. he might miss you and discover how he has been unfair to you.
Best regards!
2006-11-10 07:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just explain to him that you do infact love him very much, but you have a demanding day too. If he can't get past the fact that you enjoy spending alone time with him, but you need your time too, then he's not worth it or only wants you for one thing.
2006-11-10 07:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by Xx Spookz xX 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hmm lets see, id say find a happy medium, i mean you should give it to him sometimes when you are not in the mood and, it should go vice versa as well. maybe one day you will want it and he will be too tired but he will remember all the times you let him have his way with you.
im not saying that you always have to give into him, but relationships are all about compromising, so maybe talk to him and tell him whats going on as well
2006-11-10 07:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by mary j 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋