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What am i missing.... Every guy I fall for ends up not liking me bac, or trying to like me ..Do i just give up on love all together now..

2006-11-10 07:10:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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No, don't give up, but do be patient. When the right guy comes along, you'll know it. You won't have to try, everything will just fall into place.

2006-11-10 07:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by grandm 6 · 0 0

Sounds like you're being the aggressor. And then making some poor choices. I think you're missing the whole concept of flirting. First you should flirt to get a guy's attention. Then back off and let him make the first move. If he's interested at all, he'll let you know.

Going after a guy doesn't ensure he'll return your advances. However, one of the many problems with females being the aggressor, is that guys will accept only the physical relationship without returning any emotional commitment.

The traditional gender roles developed for a reason. What you seem to be missing, is how to play those roles.

2006-11-10 15:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by TechnoRat60 5 · 0 0

Try being more selective and more discriminating. If you are picking losers, try being single for a while and just working on yourself and getting a better understanding of who you are and what you really want. Being a doormat for losers and chasing after men who don't want you is a good way to lower your self esteem and make you think if anyone who looks at you should be given the time of day. A man who is worth something will be busy trying to show you what a catch he is and how he will and can take care of you. He won't be looking for the exit. If you are a clingy needy kind of girl, work on being less so. Nothing is less attractive than a needy, clingy, insecure person sucking the life out of anyone that comes their way. Please work on yourself to improve your self and to give yourself credit for not falling for every Tom and Dick that gives you the eye. Good luck sweetie!

2006-11-10 15:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0 0

Don't worry about looking for love. For now, concentrate on looking good, doing activities that will bring up your self esteem
like: working out at the gym, dance classes, extra school activities, and spend time with your single friends. Go to the movies, go to church and put God first in your life and all these
things that you want, will come walking slowly and comfortably
into your life. Be Blessed

2006-11-10 15:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by EVEI 6 · 0 0

God is the answer. If you are missing God, then you are missing everything. God has the unfailing love we are searching for, we just have to want it and accept it because He is freely giving it to us. Besides, He knows what is good for us, so if God has someone for you that you don't know about, He will show you in due time.

2006-11-10 15:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0 0

Obviously falling for the wrong guys. Dont worry, it will happen for you one day when the person and timing is right. You cannot force someone to like you.

2006-11-10 15:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by artisticallyderanged 4 · 0 0

NO! don't give up! i am in the same boat you are in! I really want to give up on love to but I am not because GOD will bring him when he is ready for me to have him! And i prayed and prayed and I actually think that he brought him to me!

2006-11-10 15:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by lhswimqt2009 1 · 0 0

No, don't give up. You'll find someone. Maybe they are the ones
who are missing out.

2006-11-10 15:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mailman Bob 5 · 0 0

No, I really cant help you because i have the same deal going on, but you cant give up on love.

2006-11-10 15:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Me 6 · 0 0

You are just missing the right person.

2006-11-10 15:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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