Ok so i used to work with these grimy *** bitches 2 faced girls but word through the grapevine they are saying 1 had sex with him and the other said she has kissed him. my boyfriend is a really nice guy and i always trusted him and he is tellineg me they are liars i cant believe they are trying to break us up. see me and these girls dont really get a long. but why would they start trouble now? after i havent seen them in so long?
also i dont know what i should do i want to believe him but its his word against theres. me and him have a mutual friend and my mutual friend told me that my boyfriend had called him and explained to him its not true i hate these girls etc. no one really thinks he would cheat on me but i dont know what to do. weve been together for a little over 1 year. i dont know if i should break off with him because i feel thats what these girls want?
any advice
2006-11-10 07:04:30 · 19 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your not going to beleive your boyfriend you should do him a favor and break up with him so he can find a girl who believes in him. I feel sorry for him that he is stuck with someone like you who is so easily influenced by people who don't even like you.
2006-11-10 07:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, female can be petty sometimes and before you ask I am a female. So you need to ignore them and trust in your boyfriend. Sometimes people like to destroy other people out of jealousy and many other petty reasons. Stay away from people who gossip they usually are liars and don't know what they are talking about. You have to also remember they were your associates at one time?
Now that you have grown up (mature) and moved on they may just be angry or jealous. Move on with your boyfriend and enjoy your life, as trust is the foundation of any good relationship.
2006-11-10 07:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by VLEEKS47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg wow regardless of when he had sex with the girl, HE HAD SEX WITH HER!' and he was talking to you, who knows how many times they had intercourse or if they did it before or after of at the same time you guys were having sex! He is playing you, not only that but mind games too ! trying to make it seem like your stuck on the past and like your the one trippin, its his fault and he knows inside he was guilty thats whyy he was trying 2 tell you it was before you guys had sex, tryna plead his case. Personally from my own experience once an incident like this occurs in a relationship, even the thought or possiblity of him cheating is always gunna be remebered and the trust is broken. The relationship will never be the same, it f****d move on and find someone all, leave him in the dust!
2016-05-22 03:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If these girls dont like you and you dont get along with them, most likely they are making stuff up to piss you off. They are probably bored with their lives and most likely they dont have anyone else to start trouble with. Its all about the drama. A girl I went to school with was a good friend of mine and someone that I have never even heard of told her I was saying stuff about her. All people like to do is make others feel bad. I wouldn't end it with your b/f until he gives you a reason to. Have him confront the girls while you are there. But make sure the girls aren't around each other(for your own sake) and if he refuses to do it, then you know the truth. A girl was saying she had sex with my boyfriend at the time and he refused to confront her. He told me he didnt do anything and he just didnt want to start trouble with her. She is the one who was trying to start something...and by him confronting her I would know the truth. But he wouldnt and I ended it with him and I found out he did cheat on me with her.
2006-11-10 07:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by JJMay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETIE,
dont believe everything you hear because those can be rumors for you to break up with him.... one of them probably want your man... dont give them the satisfaction of it... if you and your man dont have any trust issues than try to keep it that way because then when you start having doubts its gonna put a strain on your relationship...... talk to him and ask him personally and let him know that it is bothering you and if his response is good enough than go with it.... brush you shoulders off and tell them girls to leave you the hell alone ... i wish you the best of luck....
2006-11-10 07:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there ANY reason to think he has cheated on you OTHER than what these catty bitches are saying??
if they are the only reason you have doubts and you know they are trouble makers then ignore them.
if you Do see signs though, don't ignore the signs!!
it sounds like you have a pretty good thing with this guy. don't let anal bitches ruin it. just don't pay them any attention at all. that's what they want. the attention.
2006-11-10 12:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them. if he's given you no reason to distrust him, don't. If he'd lied or cheated in the past it would be a different matter. But I'd prob give him the benefit of the doubt. Like you said, if these girls don't like you they may just be trying to stir up trouble.
2006-11-10 07:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand if you have a great guy girls are going to do what they can to take him from you so they can have him. If you really like your bf you have to trust him and if you can't trust him then leave him there is no point in being with him unless you have hard evidence.
2006-11-10 07:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dont trust him there is no point in being together. if you do, when this girl tells you again tell her to go to the clap clinic. be really serious. you will soon find out if shes lying. good luck
2006-11-10 07:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by angela c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they did then dump him no one deserves that. I'm being a hypocrite b/c I cheated on my ex bf with one guy. But still u know guys lie and if u confront him about it he will just lie to u.
2006-11-10 07:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋