I think I am falling for my best friends X-girlfriend. We have gone out on a couple dates and we both like eachother. We get along great and have many similarities, we also decided to take it slow and not rush into anything.
My buddy found out and says he is cool with the situation. I am not sure if that is truely his feelings... he told pretty much told everyone we both know about me and his X...
My Question is more... Should I pursue the relationship?
2006-11-10 07:00:00 · 9 answers · asked by Satchmo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He dumped her... since then he has gone out with a few strippers, etc. I dont think he has many feelings for his X.
2006-11-10 07:19:42 · update #1
He dumped her... since then he has gone out with a few strippers, etc. I dont think he has many feelings for his X.
2006-11-10 07:21:55 · update #2
you asked your friend he said it was cool nothing more you can do on that front. if hes really your friend he will still be why ruin would could be a promising relationship on doubts go for it
2006-11-10 07:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by robin s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you two hit it off and you like each other, I see no reason why you shouldn't be able to pursue a relationship. Your friend says hes cool with it, so go for it. But you should take into consideration what your friend and her broke up for. Good luck and don't have too much fun.
2006-11-10 07:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by spiritfilled_daughterofzion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be a little hurt because ur his friend and it would be weird to be with her out somewhere because she is his ex. I can't say i blame him. I would not want my best friend dating an ex of mine. She wouldn't hang out with me much cuz i wouldn't want to be around my ex. That's the bottom line. He probably feels like you wouldn't hang out with him anymore or she would keep you from hanging out with him. I wouldn't pursue the relationship if you want to keep your friend. Good Luck!
2006-11-10 07:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by Manna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not pursue. Never date a friends ex-. Who wants sloppy seconds anyway?
2006-11-10 07:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as everyone involved is cool with it, why not? Good Luck!
2006-11-10 07:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because you shouldn't even think about talkin to ya friend gurl friend even if he don't like her he still has feelin's for her
2006-11-10 07:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by Nashay N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead its not like your best friend owns the girl things didnt work out for them so he cant be mad you are with her now
2006-11-10 07:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by breannafae h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do it you will lose your buddy for his x girlfriend and you now do you want to lose your friendship.
2006-11-10 07:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by thick andrich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DONT DATE YOUR FRIENDS .. AND MAYBE HE IS OKAY WITH IT BECAUSE HE REALLY DONT CARE.............
2006-11-10 07:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by rachael s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋