I have a crush on this older guy. I dont know how to tell him cause i dont want to put him in in uncomfortable position or if he turns me down i have to see this dude almost every month. How can i tell if he's feelin me and if he is come on to me. Im really shy! Is there a way i can kind of hint it to him without lookin like a $lut.Older men and women aswers please.
2006-11-10 06:59:14 · 26 answers · asked by taylor p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 44, and I can tell you with some authority that if the guy is single, he will be nothing but flattered by your attention. If he's not interested in you, it still won't bother him if you just tell him that you like him. Any guy would like to hear, "I have a crush on you." Just like that. Best case, he has a crush on you too and a relationship takes off. Worse case, he is simply not interested and nothing comes of it, good or bad. Remember, nothing ventured, nothing gained!
2006-11-10 07:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
incredibly, in case you experience something incorrect with telling them in the 1st place, there is already something incorrect with the relationship. or are you only frightened of judgment? the two way, confirm that's a extreme relationship previously you freak your mothers and dads out. talk approximately what you like out of existence and how quickly you like it. this seems to interrupt maximum couples up. they get married and then detect they the two desire numerous issues. you're nonetheless youthful; probability is you're nonetheless gaining awareness of your self and making buddies and such. he's on the age the place he's likely waiting to "calm down" and consistent with hazard even initiate having infants. while you're pleased with one yet another's needs, and you quite think of the relationship can go someplace, then ruin it on your mothers and dads slowly. enable them to comprehend which you're seeing somebody, and that even with the undeniable fact that they might merchandise, you're an person. probability is, they are nonetheless not gonna like it, and you will ought to stay in a kind of "exile" for a at a similar time as, so while you're nonetheless based on your mothers and dads (and don't pass in with the guy in order that which you heavily isn't!), that's recommended to take their needs into attention (whether you do not stay with them, in the event that they are figuring out to purchase your college or automobile money or coverage or telephone bill or perhaps though, you're based).
2016-10-21 14:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by mcsweeney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just go up there and make friends? It's the easiest way to get to know someone and have a chance at a relationship.
Also it doesn't put either person on the spot and it paves the way for a friendship even though you may not really end up with them.
Try it, it'll be fun and exciting!
2006-11-10 07:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can say this from experience, I'm in my 50s and she was in her 20s. We both enjoyed each other to the maxi-um. She even told me I road as if I were an 18 year old. The only reason we left each other was she need someone with more money. We left each other on good speaking turs.Just ask him what would he think if he would find out some one liked him
2006-11-10 07:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by flying bug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 40 and my wife was 19 when we first met. We married and had a baby. Age is only a number. Just flirt with him as you would any guy of any age. He will pick up the hint and if interested let you know.
2006-11-10 07:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 21 and love older men. Just be open and honest about it and let him know you want to see him on a more regular basis for more than a casual friendship.
2006-11-10 07:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Rae 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if he is that old he should be mature enough to respond to you whether he wants a relationship with you. if he doesnt he will probably write it off as a crush. if he does want a relationship with you youve got that out in the open age only should matter in yours and his mind
2006-11-10 07:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by ADAM S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u won't look like a slut...i'm 19 i was talkin to a guy who was 37 on the phone for a couple of days but we realized we're almost 20 years apart...he's the same age as my mom and he had kids the same as my bro and sis...it's too weird it's much easier sticking to someone closer to your own age
2006-11-10 07:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want to be with a man that much older than you? It's just a crush, let it pass. Nothing good will come of this.
2006-11-10 07:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Trust me, you will be better off finding a guy your own age. No matter how smart or mature you are, you just haven't been through the life experiences he has. Your life is still a clean slate, waiting for you to write it. Not all, but the majority of older guys who will date younger girls, are not going to be in it for a serious relationship.
2006-11-10 07:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋