my boy friend of 6yrs. is talken to other girls on his myspace page over the computer! it really pisses me off. should i say something to him?? he doesnt know i can get into his stuff..... or should i just wait and see if it goes any futher then just talkin over the computer??
2006-11-10 06:57:27 · 13 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start talking to him on the computer as someone anonymous.... different name, profile, etc. Set him up with conversations, offers, teases and temptations and see where it all leads to. If he bites on any of the offers......dump his dumb a$$. (print all of the conversations between the both of you so he can't try to lie or bulls**t his way out of the confrontation !!!!)
Good Luck to you
2006-11-10 07:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that same problem with my last Boyfriend. I knew how to get into his yahoo account and found out he was camming and chatting with women all over. Some was really erotic stuff. (Note ex boyfriend.) I confronted him about it, he thought I was making a big deal outta something that he thought wasnt a bad thing since he swore he never met up with any of these women. It continued and I kicked him to the curb.
2006-11-10 15:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myspace is a place for friends. Maybe he wants new friends. If he's sayin he's single and have intentions of hookin up with one of those girls than he's thinkin about cheatin. Talk to him about it. But how would you explain you not trusting him and spying on his things.
2006-11-10 15:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by taylor p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you shouldnt sneak around, but if you feel you must then you should wait until it involves something more. Nothing will break up a reltionship than dishonesty and mistrust. Just be careful because If you plant that seed, it might grow
2006-11-10 15:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all it is , is talking about stuff in general I'm not to sure why our mad. Men have women friends all the time. If however things get going hot and heavy I would confront him right away.
2006-11-10 15:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste time? If you want a guy who talks to girls on myspace, then stick with him. If you don't want a guy who does that, then end it with him. Why mess around waiting to see what he does?
2006-11-10 15:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Leave it be. You shouldn't go through his stuff without him kknowing
and its okay if he has other girls as friends. If hes been with you for six years, that means hes pretty commited. leave him alone. you'll know whn things are going wrong...
2006-11-10 15:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by Horselover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't confront him.
i have my husbands password too. he writes to other girls and i keep reading it. i don't think i have a right to say anything because i am the one that was snooping. i will say something to him when i see him writing that he has been calling them on the phone or meeting them.
2006-11-10 15:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt tell him that you know cause if you do he will make everything he does secret and you wont know anything that he is doing just go own your own messenger or whatever and talk to the chicks not as his g/f but as someone wanting to know about him and if he is seeing any of them
2006-11-10 15:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by Avis S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of talk? Is it sexual in nature? If it makes you uncomfortable, tell him. You're relationship is too important to just sweep it under the rug.
2006-11-10 15:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by Cindy S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋