told me that she wanted to have sex one last time. i went to her house and she wanted to be kinky and tied me to her bed. she then told me she was going to get her revenge on me for breaking it off. next thing i knew her girlfriend walks in and they proceed to beat the crap out of me practically all night but left no bruises in places clothes wouldnt conceal. they basically told me they knew there was nothing i could do because if i went to the police my wife would find out i was having sex with someone else. there is really nothing i can do about this now is there?
2006-11-10 06:54:33 · 16 answers · asked by jeremy k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry, but you got what you deserved..you'll think twice before screwing around again, huh?
2006-11-10 06:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, there is. There is no JUSTIFICATION for violence. But you have to be honest w/your wife and apologize if you want the marriage to survive. Then, you should report it to the police. If you are living w/this lie (assuming you have a conscience) then, it will effect your marriage. I strongly urge you to seek counseling and explore what is lacking in you (besiedes your morals) that lead you to betray your marriage! Sounds like you are lucky to be alive!
2006-11-10 15:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you are going to have (or already) lied to your wife of how that happened? Sounds like you are stuck between a rock and a hard place.
2006-11-10 14:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you - I learn a valuable lesson & be glad they let you go... If you had to take the beating or face your wife in divorce court which would you prefer? btw - cheaters are nothing but bottom feeders in my book!
2006-11-10 15:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You're stuck my friend. Just chalk it up as a lesson. Your only hope is if it will just die down. Don't even think of retaliating. She'll make your life more of a living hell than she already has.
2006-11-10 14:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wanted to play with fire....now you know how it feel to have gotten burned!!!! Maybe you'l learn a lesson from it all.....don't f*** with a woman unless you're literally ready and willing to get f***ed over by one or more of us.
2006-11-10 16:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Consider it your just due for having an affair and let that be a lesson to you.
2006-11-10 14:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree you got a justified beating.
Never let a girl tie you up.
2006-11-10 14:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by fullerboot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if you don't want your wife to find out. If you play, you pay!
2006-11-10 15:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ya wanna dance, ya gotta pay the Piper . . .
2006-11-10 15:01:08 · answer #10 · answered by alchemist0750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋