theres a guy i met about a month ago... we hung out every now and then ever since we met, i had gotten confused about his feelings towards me, so i talked to him about it and he told me he only wanted to be my friend cause right now is a bad time for a girlfriend, hes got a lot of **** goin on in his life..and i know hes tellin the truth on that .. ne ways... i told him i liked him (this happened about 2 days ago),at the moment i was crushed that he didnt see me the way i saw him.. .... but honestly my feelings for him had started floating away since like a week ago cause of the confusion of not being sure what he thought of me... and now my feelings are "whatever" towards him. well theres a party this weekend and i was thinkin of invitin him, my sister says i shouldnt call him til im totally over him. .i feel like i am... so good idea or a bad idea???
2006-11-10 06:39:47 · 6 answers · asked by lola b. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He made himself clear to you. Your confusion over your feelings towards him have cooled since finding out he isn't that into you. The fact that your feelings evaporated so quickly shows your emotions are really a crush and easily subject to change. Wait until you can be nice to him without having "hard" feeling towards him. If you can do that, then invite him, otherwise, do yourself and him and favor and take a pass until you can be as nice to him as the other people you invite. Good luck!
2006-11-10 06:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is 'Why?" 'Why do you want to invite him?" 'If you are inviting him to meet other gals, or as just to have someone go with you I say yes!" 'If you are inviting him, because you want him to change his mind about you or you still have some feelings for him I say no!" 'If I were you, I would call him up just to talk, then mention to him about a party your going to and that you think it would be a good idea from him to meet other people and that will help him clear his mind of all the trash that is bugging him.
2006-11-10 06:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. If he was honest enough too admit that he could not have a relationship with anyone right now, then respect that. Both of you need time, he needs time to take care of his life and you need time to be certain that you can approach him in a casual manner as a friend.
2006-11-10 06:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by VLEEKS47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the harm in inviting him? You're not interested at this point, and either is he, so whats the problem? It's a nice, friendly thing to do and there's no downside.
2006-11-10 06:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not going to do any harm by asking him to this party. Perhaps it's "this" party that will trigger something in him. So go for it! What do you have to lose?????
2006-11-10 06:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by Brokenconfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with your sister. dont invite him unless you are totally over him. so if you think you are go ahead.
good luck!
2006-11-10 06:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋