I have been such good friends with this girl ( danielle) since sixth grade. threw thick and thin we have had a non stop attraction for one another. We started dating almost 1 year ago today and now she called it quits last night. She said she wants to do whatever she wants to do when she wants. I dont think i was controlling her but shes unhappy. we cant even be friends. This feels like the girl i want in life but i dont know what to do to get her back HELP!!!!
2006-11-10 06:38:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should talk to her and ask her what was that made her break up w/ you.. if she is meant to be for you, then in time she'll come back, don't beg no one to come back, don't force them neither, that gets annoying. communicate.
2006-11-10 06:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by Become a better person 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you guys have been friends since the sixth grade, and were together for a year, I think it might be a good idea to see other people.
Even though you may not have been controlling, she may have felt a bit overwhelmed by your exclusive relationship. I would say give her the space she's requested and maybe someday you guys can return to being friends.
Don't try to "win her back" , it will only piss her off, and she will think you are crazy.
2006-11-10 14:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by herbal_tees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some freedom. Being in a relationship since 6th grade is pretty long so she needs air. Come back to her when she feels ready and keep her happy. Keeping a calendar helps you remember dates and stuff that makes you both happy. All girls go through this stage of wanting to be free from a relationship.
2006-11-10 14:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry about her leaving you. But, honestly, you can not make her love you. The way she broke-up with you almost seems like she might be interested in someone else. You might need to give her her space and let things calm down a bit. Give her the time she needs and give her her space. Talk to her friends and see if they know whats going on. And then, of course, talk to her. Email her, write her a letter or how ever you can get in touch with her to see what happened.
Good luck!
2006-11-10 14:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by twinkies_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to give her time dont even try to get her back yet and when you have given her some time ask if you to can still be friends and if she says no well ten thats her prob if she says yes then when you guys are really good friends again and you think the time is right try again!
2006-11-10 14:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by breannafae h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first continue to b her friend show her you can still b there bcuz u care.second dont rush anything,she;ll find out how hard it is to find some1 like u,trust me all woman realize what they've lost once u treat another woman with love and attention.so dont just give up loving her start dating other girls and she'll c what she's missing.
2006-11-10 14:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by nate's wife! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Search for another suitable one, U didnt get true love yet
2006-11-10 14:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by a_ebnlhaitham 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, go out with somebody else.
Do this and if she's meant for you she will come running back.
Seriously, leave her alone for a while.
Good luck.
Follow your heart.
2006-11-10 14:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by elibw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said it's over it's probably over. You don't want to be with someone that isn't interested anymore. i would say do exactly what she wants and move on.
2006-11-10 14:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by 98ta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it down to experience and get out more.
2006-11-10 14:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ahwell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋