I just caugt my b/f cheating on...but when I asked him about it ...he said it was his cousin(which i don't believe) I just wanna know whether i should give him a nother chance b/c me and him have been through some things for real, and i really miss him...but this is not the first time he has done this, he has done this 1 time before....just let me know ya feeling and help me decide what to do!!!!!
2006-11-10 05:58:07 · 17 answers · asked by sweetmama142003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dr Phil will ask you if you want to be slapped silly. That's how ridiculous you sound. C'mon, salvage your pride for God's sake. Walk away and don't turn back. It's always like this when we're in love, we think we'd die without the person, when you're over him you'll realise it was nothing after all.
2006-11-10 06:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's look at the facts. You caught him one time before. You caught him and he is trying to convince you that it was not the case,which is essentially saying that either you are a fool or that you are ignorant to the point that you can't recognize when someone is cheating. In spite of the fact that you have been through a lot, consider the fact that maybe the reason that you have been through a lot is because of the problems with trust and his seemingly lack of commitment. My point is that you should consider if you should continue with this troubled relationship or if life has something better to offer to you and move on. Who knows, the next relationship may be one that you want have to go through a lot with.
2006-11-10 14:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by Willard S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know what you should do in this situation. If he's done this before, like you said, and it's happened again, what makes you think he's not going to hurt you again? Are you wanting to make things work and then have him repeat his mistakes? You are better than that, and you don't want to waste your time on somebody who doesn't learn from their mistakes. Say goodbye, move on, and you will find a man who's honest and devoted to only YOU. Good Luck!
2006-11-10 14:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 3 kids with my ex and i thought that when he cheated on me the first time it would never happen again and it did another time and then the last time he left me for another women my advise for u is once a cheat always a cheat
2006-11-10 14:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, tough question. If he keeps doing this, you have to ask yourself..is this what you want? You must want something better for yourself. I'm sure you two have had some experiences in the past, but your past does not define you. Live your life for you!! You can do better. You don't deserve to be lied to and cheated on.
2006-11-10 14:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Becca P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Plant C-4 on the support beams of his house. It's hard for the police to get any DNA that way if everything's vaporized.
2006-11-10 14:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by Thunor232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give him another change, you prove to him that you don't care very much about loyalty. He's already done it twice now. Do you need a disease or a baby from another woman next time? Two words: BUH BYE
2006-11-10 14:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way....Start over with someone else. If you caught him you caught him... Once a cheater,and in your case it has been proven, always a cheater. Move on! You can find someone else to "go through some things with". Probably better, positive things.
2006-11-10 14:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by Making Them Listen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Was he cheating? Meaning...sleeping with her. Evidently not since he says it's his cousin...and that would be even sicker! He's not cheating.....but he is being a bad bf. If you have the feeling that he is going to be unfaithful, follow your gut. It's usually right.
2006-11-10 14:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would it matter if it was his cousin. 2 times you know of. He's going to end up giving you something.
2006-11-10 14:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋