Ok i posted the question but forgot to add this to it. he said that he has to end it with me because he feels bad because he never gets time to see me and i am too nice and dont hassel him. He is a DJ and works nights so difficult but i was fine with the situation.
The after he acts like he wants me but then as soon as i show interest he kinda backs of. I have never asked anything from him at all and i told him the way that i felt, and he respected that and said he does like me but feels guilty because he aint there for m,e like i want him to be.
2006-11-10 05:46:46 · 20 answers · asked by Irreplaceable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My b/f and I went through the same thing. He felt guilty that he wasnt spending enough time with me. Then he kept saying that I was too good for him and that he didnt deserve me. He didnt want me wasting my time for him.
We have been together for 6 years, starting a family next year and we have had our house for 3 years.
Give it time. Don't push him but have a nice long conversation about this. COmmunication is the Key.
2006-11-10 05:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by MomOf2Girls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's thinking he doesn't want to feel guilty about such a nice niave girl sitting around waiting on him. He is not interested in you more than his job and he is honest enough to have cut you loose. Move on and find another MAN, this one isn't it for you! Good luck!
2006-11-10 05:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem very clear about what you want...dont let him change you. Sounds like he has a hidden agenda. You could challenge him about his reluctance to respond if you haven't already done so. Make sure you explain clearly without judgement who you ARE and WHAT you need.
But my advice is cut your losses and find someone who wants the same as you, and values you for who you are, not what you could be.
Good luck! X
2006-11-10 05:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go wtih the flow, don't talk to him for a few days, and see what happens, sounds like he does like you, but he is unsure of him self and what he does for a living..........get on with your life and enjoy it, remain friendly with this guy, and your never no in the future you may get back together, men are strange, will most of them..........good luck and god bless.
2006-11-10 05:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think he is interested, and is using his job as an excuse - it would be better for him to be honest, but he doesn't have the guts. I would back off a little and bring some distance, and only then will you know if he really is interested.
2006-11-10 05:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lucia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dj's are flirts
they think they are gods gift.
also he is a man so he likes the thrill of the chase.
men dont like women who give it them on a plate.
ever heard the saying treat em mean keep them keen?
well i think you sould try this with him.
2006-11-10 05:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a player!!!!!!!!!
girl, WAKE UP!!!!
he's only interested in you on HIS terms.
MOVE ON. you sound like a nice person. find someone else. don't let any azz walk all over you.
good luck.
2006-11-10 05:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't explain your bf but HE JUST AIN'T THAT INTO YOU. What a dummy. Saw your 360 page... WOW
2006-11-10 05:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he says he feels soooo guilty for not being there for you which probly meens he doesn't or can't be bothered ditch without haste
2006-11-10 05:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're just not compatible in ways that meet each other's needs.
2006-11-10 05:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋