looks, money, sex, name, what?
2006-11-10 05:40:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know i love my man for several reasons...
1.) the way he looks at me
2.) the way it makes me feel when he touches me
3.) his smile
4.) his ambition
5.) his sense of humor
6.) his romantic ways
7.) his good looks
8.) the way he makes me feel safe
9.) he is the father of my children
10) i look forward to growing old with him
so, i guess i love him for him. we are a family.
2006-11-10 05:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the woman. Women say they love a man for a lot of different reasons, looks, money, sex, etc. But when they really are in love with someone it's for who they are and how they make the woman feel.
2006-11-10 13:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who they are! It also encompasses 'what they have'.
Do they have drive, intelligence, patience? Chances are, with these qualities they will eventually "have" things in life as well, like a good job and house or what-have-you.
Sex, money, etc can be perks. But that's the same with women when it comes to men choosing a mate. Men of course would like to have a beautiful woman with nice breasts or beautiful eyes... but it's not the deal-breaker, you know?
2006-11-10 13:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the girl. I will tell you that alot of girls like to date guys who make them look good. And that could be from their, looks-money-name-etc. And some girls straight dont give a rats ***. Personally, I am attracted to personality more than anything. But, things like looks, are an element of attraction. If a female "loves" a guy for his money or looks or what his name is, then that is NOT love. Its lust.
2006-11-10 13:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, I would guess it would depend on the woman, and what she was looking for. For some women security is the number 1 reason to pick a guy. to other women I guess it is arm candy. But I would say a bit of both,a nice man that will treat us with respect,trust, and honesty
2006-11-10 13:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We start off thinking we love them, but then as we get to know them, we realize they are all alike and no different. So yeah, most women when they get smart pick a man with a good job and income, cause they know that in the end-they are all the same.
2006-11-10 13:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married come next week for 26 yrs. and believe me when I say I love my man for how he treats me, respects me and how he makes me feel as if I am the most precious thing in his life. People like that don't come around everyday. They are very few and far between.
So my answer would be for who they are in a big way.
2006-11-10 13:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Number One Nana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women love men for what they THINK they can turn them in to.
2006-11-10 13:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me persoanlly it is who they are, how they view the world, what there values are, and basically how he expresses his love with me and his loved ones...
Money is great but it truly isn't everything!
2006-11-10 13:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, who they are. At least for me and most women. The stereotype is VERY wrong.
2006-11-10 13:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋