i work in a small place there are only 14 employees there... this one guy he is alot older then me and married.. lately he seems to love talking to me and joking with me everyone seems to notice and they say boy he loves to pick on you doesnt he? anyway lately he has kind of been making me feel like he is flirting with me always finding something to talk about even if its dumb.. and today he walked me to the door when i left and said i just wanted to show you out.... i am married also and have no intrest in this guy other then as a co worker.. am i over reacting or is he flirting???
2006-11-10 05:34:55 · 10 answers · asked by crazyme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well as long as it stops there. it is okay to look at menus just don't order!! you are still human and people can still find you attractive and like to talk to you.. you aren't interested in him that way so you shouldn't have any worries!!! You are both married and just becuz you are married don't mean you are dead!! it is okay just as long as it stays at that place in the friendship.. just that "friendship... don't let it go past that and all will be good
2006-11-10 05:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
phfft, who knows. I am in the same boat as you... and sometimes I wonder if I'm just some narcissistic woman who thinks everyone is after her when I notice a guy flirting. I've been in this situation.. and it's sneaky on the man's part if he IS doing what you suspect because no one can really call him on it. After all, he hasn't blatantly said anything in that regard and he and you are both married..... sneaky sneaky. He might just want to know he still has "it", so he'll confirm it by flirting with an attractive female? I don't think you're overreacting... if you are, then I do as well.
2006-11-10 13:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your sub conscience is kicking in. Being a man, I can tell you that its biology at work. When he brings it up; and he will; have a ready answer for him. He'll make a better friend than a cheating lover. It probably wouldn't hurt to chastize him a little.
But don't be mean. Unless he walks you to your car. If it reaches that point, you'll know. Be prepared for it.
2006-11-10 13:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by Handy man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be harmless; maybe he's just being really friendly. Or he could actually be flirting with you, as you suggest. Either way, if it makes you uncomfortable, you need to tell him kindly that you are not interested. But I wouldn't automatically take it as flirting, though.
2006-11-10 13:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Von Kempelen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just flirting, but if it goes any further than it has, I suggest putting an end to it.
2006-11-10 13:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it to me. I'd tell him to back off. Friendly chatting is fine but I think he's crossing the line. If he doesn't leave you alone after you ask him too, I'd tell your boss that he's bugging you. Hope this helps.
2006-11-10 13:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by bassmaim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if there is something wrong in his marriage, and if so, tell him to go talk to his wife about it.
2006-11-10 13:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're trying to flatter yourself.
2006-11-11 16:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by reblcwgrl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he is flirting with u
so be careful and dont get close from him
2006-11-10 13:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by fairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is married, then i would assume that he is just flirting.... guys do it.
2006-11-10 13:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by trucking_matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋