my boyfriend and i broke up about a week ago, well he broke up with me after we had a fight and he said he was moving up north, i kinda said i was sick of him putting me last...i begged him toreconsider an that we could be together when he came back but he wont take any of my calls and he hasnt called in a week?? do u think hes totaly done with me or just mad and might call at one point????
krista
2006-11-10 05:32:51 · 24 answers · asked by krista22here 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know i probably put more pressure on him then he wanted, things just started getin worse and worse and maybe movin away was his exit, in time do u think hell come around? ive stopped calling totaly
2006-11-10 05:44:05 · update #1
well i actualy kinda was the one to insinuate i wanted it to end....he didnt break up withme till a few days later when i was askin for him back
2006-11-10 05:45:44 · update #2
Um I think he maybe wanted to break up for a while and used the argument as his exit. By calling him you may be making him think that leaving you really was the best option. I think you should stop calling and move on, he may find he really can't live without you but if not you should just get on with life. You don't need to be messed around. Hpe it turns out ok whatever you decide. x
2006-11-10 05:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by supastar_666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time but as it seems he's probably moving on,however miracles always happen.Babe this is your time to grow and mature.You obviously know what you want-don't compromise your sense of being or self worth and self respect.There is always a reason for everything-wheather you believe it or not.It's the design of the Universe.Things always have some kind of resolve.May the Powers that be give you peace in your heart and guide your way in your growth-peace.Chio!RIZ>
2006-11-10 05:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Shalimaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really wont him back? if he does not put you first, will what kind of relationship is that...........don't call him for a while and really sit down and think about things, and what caused the argument in the first place, sounds to me you are only young and should get out there and have some fun, life is for living, enjoy yourself, and just go with the flow.....good luck and god bless.
2006-11-10 05:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how well your realationship was. If he did not really care about you, he will not came back, but if you two got well together than he may come back. He will call you if he was just angry for that time, but if you always had fights he may not come back because he would be exhausted of that. Send him SMSs that you are sorry, if he does not answer your calls, if you really want him to come back.
2006-11-10 05:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by The Calculus Alchemist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give him some breathing space and see where it goes probably he needs some time to cool off if he loves you and want's to get back with you he will call you. Good Luck
2006-11-10 05:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by antionette_jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By him not making you a priority....you should already have your answer. It was over before you were aware that it was over. Sorry. I know it's hard to hear and even harder to believe. I would try and move on. Don't call that man!
2006-11-10 05:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by aquestforaheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but he's probably done. But, if he always puts you last and you have to beg to get attention, you're probably better off if he is done with you. Even though it hurts now.
2006-11-10 05:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be honest with yourself first. did you want to break up? did you start it? if so it's very likely that it's best for both of you to move on...if he comes back it's likely to be because it's easy for the time being but not the long term.
2006-11-10 09:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he sparked the fight on purpose and used that as an excuse to break up with you to make him moving away easier on you both.
2006-11-10 05:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it for a while he may reconsider. if you push the issue it might make him back off more. read tips on dating and relationships to help you more on this site
2006-11-10 05:39:24 · answer #10 · answered by doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋