well theres this guy and he works somewhere and I was wondering if I could ask him if he would go with me for a drink
is it good idea I mean what would he think a girl approaching him plus I dont know him
2006-11-10 05:29:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
belinda c if I were I wouldnt be asking on here would I you stupid
2006-11-10 05:32:07 · update #1
Maybe try saying "i was going down to starbucks, and was wondering if you'd wanna tag along" or something, but yea I'm a dude and it's tight when chicks approach guys
2006-11-10 07:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Guys love it when a girl has the guts to make the first move. I mean, when a guy asks a girl to a place we feel stoked that someone noticed us...guys feel the same way usually. But be safe about it since you don't know eachother very well. Just say something like "hey have you ever been to *insert drink place* ? I hear it's pretty good. I'm gonna check it out *insert day* wanna meet me up there to try it out?" Good luck girl!
2006-11-10 13:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by CuriosityKilledtheCat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go for it!!! Ask him if he'd like to meet you for a drink at a local place. Set a time and day, and go for it. Just make it public since you don't know him. I mean, the worst he can say is no. The worst that can happen is that he can say yes, then he could not show up. But then you'll know.
2006-11-10 13:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking as a guy, i would be flattered if a woman i didnt know approached me and asked me out for a drink. just be careful not to come on too strong . theres a BIG difference between being approached by a stranger and having a stalker jumping out on you and demanding you take her for a drink. lol . good luck hun.
2006-11-10 13:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by PHIL M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him to lunch of a cup of coffee during the day. Asking men you don't really know for drinks is a bit cheezy. And could be dangerous. But first you might want to spend time talking to him.
2006-11-10 13:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! What do you have to lose besides him turning you down! Plus guys like when a girl can take action. I think its a great idea, and who knows, you two could really hit it off!!! Good luck!!!
2006-11-10 13:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by L I N D S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some boys like for girls to make the first move so don't be to scared to ask him. Boys get just as nervous and freaked out as us. They're scared of rejection just as much as we are so just go for it. I'm sure he'll say yes. It's not like ur asking him to marry you...lol...so relax and go up to him and I'm sure he's gonna say yes. Maybe come up with a cute phrase to say to him.
2006-11-10 13:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach him and he will be happy to go with you. A girl asking a guy to go for a drink with her will be happily accepted.
2006-11-10 13:34:32 · answer #8 · answered by khayum p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone loves "a drink" so just ask him he will say yes and even be flattered by the offer
2006-11-10 13:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to him, ask him for a drink, wait to see what he says, simple as that. just find the courage inside to approach him
2006-11-10 13:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by iamthemullit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋