I'm 14 now and I still haven't ever kissed a guy. I've had a bf since my 13th birthday and we were totally in love, but we were surprised by some jerks just when we were going to kiss, and then my bf had to move to africa. I've just heard that his parents have forbidden him from ever coming back, so now I'm left without much romantic experience and I'm desperately trying to find somebody else to move on with my life. Only thing is I have no idea how to find somebody (the friend who introduced me to my ex started spreading rumours on both sides after that last night I saw him so can't count on her). I'm good at making friends but I find it hard to get to know people well, and for each good-looking guy there's a more experienced and better-looking girl than me hitting on him. Please help!
2006-11-10 05:28:56 · 9 answers · asked by it's a mystery 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off your way to young to be worrying about boys. They jsut ruin everything. Im not gonna lie boys are ALOT of work. and they make you cry alot and they break your heart. its hard. jsut be a kid. your still only 14 take this time to be with your friends. and when your ready the right guy will come to you. Just wait. and have fun while doing it.
And im sorry for your lost. I REALLY am. i hope you start to feel better<33
2006-11-10 05:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by FairChild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up first 15 is still to young to date. Wait until you turn 16 or 17 . It seems that teenagers are rushing into relationships. What do you know about love at the age of 14. Anyway good luck......
2006-11-10 05:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to look past everyone else. Don't fall into the habit of comparing yourself to others. If a guy is going to like you , you need to have respect for yourself and not be dependent on him for your self esteem. Guys like women who are self assured and self relient. But also don't rush it. Any guy who wants to start pawing at you as soon as you start going out is only trying to get into your pants. Just make sure it's a nice boy, not a jerk that you make that first move with.
2006-11-10 05:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it much hon,like you said your only 14 y/o, you got your whole life ahead of you yet, as far as your g/f goes about spreading rumors dont worrie there either, shes just jelllous of you and just showing just how im mature she really is, but if your really looking for a b/f try your local gamerooms at your closest mall or maybe even the bowling alley or somthing along those lines,you might even land one in church, its a good bet also, just take your time hon you''ll be just fine,good luck,,stinger5906
2006-11-10 05:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in Virginia Beach, id be more than willing to kiss you.
Best thing to tell you is not to rush, its not much of a thrill anywaz, well for the most part. You will get a knew crush soon, wait and see.
-James
2006-11-10 05:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't believe this but they'll be so many guys to kiss you'll have to hide.
Don't get involved with someone with too much experience because he might want to take it to a level you're not ready for.
You're still so young, don't rush your life. Take you time and everything that you want to happen will.
2006-11-10 05:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't want to hear this but you're young! Be patient. It will happen.
Why not spend your energies hanging out with your friends and enjoying yourself? There will be plenty of boyfriends for you in the future.
Besides, a watched pot never boils. Things usually happen when you least expect them.
2006-11-10 05:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by wendyshannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that girl who introduce u to ur ex boyfriend she aint a good friend so if i was u i wouldnt talk to her and u can get a boyfriend here just asked them if they want a girl and then ask if they wanna be ur boyfriend well try to look for some one who is ur type! well let me know how it goes!
2006-11-10 05:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by CRISTINA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just wait till some guy hits on you
2006-11-10 05:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by Charlotte.♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋