OK -- My man usually has me call him when he gets home from work. He leaves me an e mail telling me that he is going for a beer after work with one of his co-workers. Me myself think -- oh he will probably have a couple and be there for a couple hours with his bud. It gets to be 9 o'clock and he got off work at 6. I'm getting a little worried thinking he may have gotten stopped on the way home and may be at the police department or he could be hurt from an accident. I wait until 915 or so so I go by his home hoping he wlll be there by the time I get there in which it took me an hour to get there and still he was not there. I finally give up and go back home. I recieve a phone call at 12:30 a.m. from him chewing me out for calling him so much and by coming by. I was just worried about him as he had told me he just wanted to go get a beer after work and really get home because he had some things he really needed to get done. I feel I was in the wrong driving by the house.
2006-11-10 05:24:59 · 10 answers · asked by Nancy T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means different things to different people. To me going out for a drink would be an hour or two. Any longer than that and I would refer to it as a night out. My man used to do that to me also, and I would fix dinner and wait on him. Really tends to make a girl angry. I know that sometimes things come up and you end up staying longer, but if it becomes a habit, I would put my foot down. I told my man that if he wanted to hang with the single guys and the ones that had no respect for their women, he was certainly entitled to it, but that he would be doing it without me in the picture. But you have to be prepared for whichever decision he makes. Good luck.
2006-11-10 06:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Hallon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 14:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You werent' wrong...just worried he could have been polite enough to call you and let you know that he was goign to be out late. I go for drinks with co workers sometimes and i get home anytime between 7pm and 2am...it just depends....the only time I would get worried if it becomes a habit...trust me if he had been arrested you would have gotten a phone call much earlier.
2006-11-10 05:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by alwayssmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got you well trained... If you want a real life you better move on and find somebody who can't wait to be with you after work... That's the way it should be... Don't settle for second best to a beer bottle...
2006-11-10 05:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you checking on him. I would too. But it sounds like he's up to something more. I don't want to accuse him of cheating, but it sounds very much like it. Why don't you go out with him and his friends sometime? Then you could see what takes him so long. I hope, for your sake, that he isn't cheating, but I'm betting he is. Sorry.
2006-11-10 05:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were totally out of order, This is an adult not a child, he doesn't need to be kept track of, You are treating him like he is irresponsible. and he is just doing his thing, If you want to keep him you have to learn to trust him and not let your insecurities get in the way. as you really need to mature some more, and justifying it with you worrying, that is just you excuse to keep tabs on him
2006-11-10 05:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, tell him to get his alcoholism in check and stop being so sketchy. why would be get mad about you driving by the house to make sure hes ok? cause hes doing something bad, thats why.
2006-11-10 05:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by strawberryblond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
45 minutes...i would dump him unless he changes his ways fast
2006-11-10 05:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he is dippin his ink in another well! enough said?
2006-11-10 05:30:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's cheating on you.
2006-11-10 05:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by mistery person 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋