My boyfriend is Egyptian. I know that his dream girl is Nancy Agram who is lebanese. He keeps all her pictures and all and has told me himself that she is his dream girl.
I am of asian/indian ethnicity, and I look nothing like Nancy Agram. He does tell me that he loves me and that I'm the more beautiful girl in his eyes.
My question is: can a man love and be physically attracted to a girl who is completely different from his dream girl?
2006-11-10 05:23:54 · 16 answers · asked by flowerbud 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you since you are Asian/Indian--I'm sure you look somewhat like the type of woman that he likes..For example I am African-American--and I look NOTHING like a Lebanese woman. In other words, you are closer to his ideal than I am---or a blond, blue eyed white woman is..
Well, I didn't know who Nancy Agram was, but I just looked her up on the internet for a quick second. I'm going to be honest with you: she looks very fake and old. I can tell that she's had alot of plastic surgery, a nose job and many some other work done. She also wears A LOTof makeup--Too Much--and she looks like if you took off all her makeup, she would look old and fake... She's not very cute, and I dont see how on earth she is your boyfriend's Dream Girl. He must be very easy to please... Honey, I dont even know you, but I'll bet you look better than her.The only thing I can see with Nancy that she seems to try very hard to look sexy--very hard. Maybe its her sexiness he likes. There are MANY Lebanese women who look better than her. The singer Shakira for one--she is gorgeous and beautiful--and Natural Looking. I also saw many Lebanese women on the news when the war was going on a few months ago--and even many of those women looked better than Nancy Agram.
I personally would not want to marry a man whose ideal woman has blone hair or blue eyes--or if she was any woman who wasnt partially black--because that means that I am his "seond choice". I am number 1 in my book, and I am not anybody's second choice.
As for you--I dont know dear...Maybe you should date other guys to see what is out here. Dont sleep with anybody, but if you feel uncomfortable and unhappy with this situation--then maybe you should keep your eyes open for any other men that find you attractive and go out with them for lunch. If your boyfriend has her pictures up on his wall, then you should feel free to look at other men as well. After all, you are are not married--and you shouldn't be with someone if you feel it brings down your self esteem. Peace
EDIT-PS---Your boyfriend told you that you are "More Beautiful" to him that Nancy, so maybe you should stop feeling that he prefers her so much--maybe he really DOES think you look better..After all, Nancy looks sexually loose and easy--and thats probably all he sees in her.
(take a look at Shakira, a beautiful Lebanese woman who looks 1 million times better than Nancy)
2006-11-10 05:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Victory 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A man can be and probably will be physically attracted to several girls, that in no way implies that he is in love with them. There may be no specific type of girl to which he is attracted it is a combination of things so you can be attracted physically to very different women.
2006-11-10 06:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by dano 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If not-then we would all be screwed!! Most mens dream girls consist of playboy or victoria secret models. None of us (well most) don't compete with that. And guess what? They still marry and love us not so perfect women. Love is in the eyes of the beholder.
2006-11-10 05:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
absolutely. who is your "fantasy" man? does your boyfriend look JUST like that? Just because he thinks she is beautiful, does not mean that he doesn't also think you are beautiful, if not more beautiful.
easy example. I think lilies are beautiful flowers, and want to have them at my wedding. However, orchids are stunningly beautiful as well. You can find two things attractive, even though they may be very different.
don't stress about it. my man looks nothing like my "dream man", however, he's the most attractive man in the world to me.
2006-11-10 05:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure your bf has at least a few physical differences from your dream guy, and i bet that doesn't make you love him any less. it sounds like he is very attracted to you, don't let the look he liked most BEFORE he met you worry you.
2006-11-10 05:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's tough. She has a boyfriend already... so just forget about going out with her. Become close friends with her, and if you're lucky, maybe they'll break up.
2016-03-19 06:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he realizes that she is an unattainable dream. Hopefully he realizes that he has a wonderful person in his life now and loves and appreciates all you bring to his life.
2006-11-10 05:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Looks are important, but if you love someone, you don't notice the gray hairs, wrinkles, etc.... that aren't traditionally regarded as attractive.
2006-11-10 05:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by Luken 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds incredibly immature if he has photos of a celebrity to gaze at. I don't know how he has room in his little world to love anyone if he's still fantasizing about someone else. Tell him to call you if or when he grows up.
2006-11-10 05:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes DEFinitely...my husband prefers redheads but Im blonde and Im the love of his life
2006-11-10 05:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋