he finishes seeing me, then gives me the impression that he is intersted again, asks me to stay and cant take his hands off of me, then gives me a cd he has made for me which must have been made after he finished with me. I go on holiday he tells me to call him when i get back. i do but he seems distant. What does this mean and what do i do. I really like him that is the problem.
2006-11-10 05:21:45 · 13 answers · asked by Irreplaceable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that he needs to make his mind up and if he doesn't then just let him go!!
2006-11-10 05:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by JenniB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh- is his name John Edwards by any chance?!!
I went out with a guy by that name for 3 whole months earlier this year and he behaved EXACTLY like that.
For the preservation of my sanity I had to let him go even though I cried every day for a week after I did it, I was totally nuts about him and he was gorgeous. But I didn't know where I stood with him and it was driving me crazy, I figured that I deserved better than that, I'm worth more than that. I even posted a question about him- I couldn't for the life of me figure him out, in the end I thought he might even be gay.
I asked him time and again if there was someone else, he always said no. I tried hard even though at times he would ignore my calls or respond coldly when we finally spoke.
I asked him what I'd done, he said I hadn't done anything wrong. I gave it my best shot over the time I knew him but it was good self-care to walk away when I did. Even now I still feel something towards him even though I haven't seen him in nearly 6 months and I'm dating other guys now.
You have to ask yourself: Do you deserve to be treated in this way?
I definitely did not and neither do you. x
2006-11-17 22:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's confused or something. I know he cares about you that's for sure because of the way he acts. You should ask him why is he so distant when he calls. Tell him that he's confusing you and you wanna know what's going on and if he really wants to be with you. You never know if you don't ask him up front.
2006-11-10 13:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems kinda mixed up at the moment (weird - i thought guys were simple beings!) Maybe give him a little time then tell him how hes making you feel and give him an ultimatum. You may like him, but no guy is worth spending all your time worrying about. Hpe it wrks out for you
x
2006-11-10 13:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by supastar_666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to get over you for some reason and trying to tell himself that he must push you out of his life. But he can't cause he is attracted to you and might love you. Why would he push you away are you going somewhere that he isn't in life? Is he worried he'll hold you back? I would try to have a heart to heart with him about it. IF he ignores the heart to heart then its over for whatever reason and go on.
2006-11-10 13:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do ya like him well enough to continue to be a convience to him? Find your sense of self-worth and find a man who will appreciate and respect you. This man couldn't care less about your feelings...This man is selfish and very inconsiderate. Take a look in the mirror...see that lady....the one who deserves to be treated with repsect?? Find your dignity! Time to move on.....sorry to say it.....but you'll be glad you did in the end!!
2006-11-10 13:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems a bit mixed up just now. Stay friends and in contact and see how it goes from there. I wouldnt push it or you might blow the whole thing. Good luck.
2006-11-10 13:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by skybound767 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you but not all the time! He wants freedom but will miss having you there. Give him an ultimatum - it's the only way.
2006-11-10 13:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by fatboyslick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may have an interest but is unaware of how to show it. or it may be he is pretending to have an interest to maintain a physical relationship. tell him to define the relationship or you'll end it cold turkey. ultimatums suck i know but hold true to your word and the answer will reveal itself
2006-11-10 13:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by Gray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you until he finds the one he is looking for sorry but don't put up with it dump him and move on with your life.
2006-11-10 13:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋