I have related a question from this unfortunate situation in another question earlier. Heres a lowdown...
I was talking to this long time crush on msn yesterday when she decided to tell me something personal (ie her parents split up). I decided to tell my best mate through text messenging and even added her nickname I made for her in the text. But guessed wat, my mind screwed me out and at the slip of mind, i sent it to the HER. DAMN! I tried to apologize profusely to her telling her that msg was meant for my best mate and that we share stuffs blah blah and she said dont worry about it.
My question: I was thinking of dropping a text msg to apologize to her but like a member said, do u think im overdoing on the im sorry thing? What shd I say to her then if Im gonna say sorry to her? Help!
2006-11-10 05:15:53 · 11 answers · asked by n707jt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends in what the tone of the msg you sent to your friend was. If it was "gossipy", I'd probably talk to her in person and say it was an action with a lack of respect for her and you are very sorry. If it was more of a best-friends-share-all-secrets type thing, then ask her if she'd rather have you not tell your good friend things like these (because otherwise that's how things will be. and i understand because i tell my best friend almost everything).
So it depends on the nature of the text. If you think you shouldn't have texted your best bud this, then apologize and take full blame for it... it will be the best thing for you to do in her eyes. But it sounds like she isn't too hung up about it... so maybe just send her a text saying- I feel like a fool for sending you a 'secret' that was meant for my best friend. If it bothers you, I won't tell my friend things like that about you again"
good luck
2006-11-10 05:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting caught doing something wrong is painful isn't it? (I know this from personal experience). If you've apologized and she has accepted it, then are you trying to make to make YOU feel better rather than her? If her actions remain the same to you, let it drop. Deal with your guilt on your own time, not hers.
2006-11-10 05:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by Caper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find an "im sorry " song and send a picture of you and the song playing on a text message
if ur phone can do that
it always works 4 me
good luck
2006-11-10 05:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by badger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it means she is still a bit mad it happened. Its like she confided in you and you blabbed about it. Its like the kissing and telling thing... tell her sorry one more time and talk like normal. Lesson learned don't gossip as it will come back to haunt you.
2006-11-10 05:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you screwed up, apologized a million times. Let it pass.
2006-11-10 05:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...since you did screw up,say I'm sorry one more time!Just to make sure things are okay between you two!Good luck!
2006-11-10 05:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by Andi<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would explain once more and then you have to let it go and hope she really understands.
When someone tells me a secret I always tell them upfront that I'm going to tell my husband...then it's up to them if they still want to tell me their secret.
2006-11-10 05:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you should re think gossiping all the time. and after you said sry the first time she said it was okay let it go now!
2006-11-10 05:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by tweedy778 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said don't worry about it. So don't worry about it!
2006-11-10 05:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by mzindica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enough is enough, quit begging and move on
2006-11-10 05:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋