i am started to get a bit annoyed as there is just no privacy . its not the right environment for a couple. am i right in saying this.!
2006-11-10 05:02:58 · 16 answers · asked by Prada 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well unless you're in a position to put a roof over his head you can't tell him where to live
2006-11-10 05:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If 'you' aren't a tennant, you sadly don't come into the equation. Yep, it's annoying being a couple (when onlt one of you live there) in a shared house & the bedroom being the only private space - but it's a whole lot cheeper than renting on your own :)
The 'right environment' ...... you make it sound as you're a pair of hampsters - make the most of what you have!
2006-11-10 05:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by nickthesurfer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live there,yes but if you dont then its up to him to ultimately decide. If theres no privacy there,about your place? Or if you do live there then I agree with you. Talk to him,see if you two can manage the bills on your own or find a smaller place. Especially if youve been together a while. I dont like living with other people either.
2006-11-10 05:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right there is no privacy and sharing a house there usually isn't much.
He doesn't have the place to himself so if you want privacy you'll have to go somewhere else.
If you really care for each other you will find a way.
2006-11-10 05:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as issue of privacy comes it is difficult,but not impossible to achieve in given situation.Further privacy is a personal term that degree of privacy vary person to person and issue to issue.
If can afford have an independent house.
2006-11-10 06:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by bps2902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about your place?
I'm assuming if you two are always at his place that yours is not 'the right environment for a couple'. you're not wrong in thinking this but if your home is the same way than you're just at much at fault as he is. Get used to it.
My boyfriend lives alone, i live with roommates. When we want to be alone we're at his place, when we don't care or would like company than we're at mine.
2006-11-10 05:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf lives the same way and sometimes it can get hard but if u love him u will work with him i have for 8yrs and thing have gotten better it toke a lot of work and still is but if u want things to work u will do what ever it takes gust do your best and not make him upset with u about it some men don't like to hear the truth about the way they live even if they know already
2006-11-10 05:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by baby_lovenm69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree that would be really hard. I'm sooooo glad my boyfriend doesn't have any roommates.
But what is your boyfriend's financial situation? Is it impossible for him to live by himself? It would definitely be more expensive for him. If he has to have roommates, you're going to have to just live with it. Be patient and look forward to the day when you can move in together. ALONE.
2006-11-10 05:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by wendyshannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely, if you two do not have any privacy maybe you guys should go to a hotel or go to your place or something.
2006-11-10 05:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like the environment then go somewhere that you will be comfortable and if he loves you then he will understand why your doing that
good luck
2006-11-10 05:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
part of dating someone is accepting everything about them - they're personality, their likes and dislikes, AND where they live.
You just have to decide if you can get over it or not. You most definitely cannot change it, unless you have your own place and you can have him over to your place more often.
2006-11-10 05:12:51 · answer #11 · answered by raquel122203 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋