Give me 5 reason why you u can have the first sex and 7 reasons why u'd better not to have it....
Basically, Is it okay or not okay to have first sex before marriage with your boyfriend??
2006-11-10 04:59:21 · 8 answers · asked by dayBYday 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, I am 30 years old--and I can tell you that looking back on what has happened to my female family members and friends--It Is Best to Wait To Get Married before you have sex. Heres why:
1. You have a very high chance on contracting an STD. Sexually Transmited Disease.
Condoms Do Not Protect you from Herpes or Genital Warts--and many teens have those diseases. 70% of all Americans have an STD. I know your man probably swears he doesnt have an STD--but he might have HPV--genital warts--and not know it. If you get HPV (genital warts), you could get Cervical Cancer in your 20's or 30's; and you will also have herpes and genital warts For The Rest Of your Life. (click on the link below to see what they look like)
2. 9 times out of 10--the relationship will get WORSE after he has sex with you.
Eventually he will dump you: After all--has he asked you to marry him? If not, then chances are he wont ever marry you--because if he loved you he would wait to marry you before he slept with you--which means you will get dumped some day.
3. You might get Pregnant.
Condoms Break--thats how my brother came into this world.
Do you know that most states have "Parental Consent Laws"--which means that if anyone under the age of 18 gets pregnant, she must get permission from her parents to have an abortion. Are you ready to be a Single Mother?
4. Once you lose your Virginity--its gone Forvever and you cant get it back. And anyway, Virgens are hot!
5. You could get HIV. 3 teens in a Maryland highschool tested positive for HIV this year--one just died. (I'm a Teacher)
HIV CAN happen to you, and remember that condoms do break. This teenager was on Oprah last year, and told of how he was having sex, the condom broke, and now he is HIV positive.
....Those are the main things I can think of.
If you are thinking of having sex, then you have to become responsible: you need to take a trip to your local Planned Parenthood to get on birth control and learn about Safe Sex.
You will also need to get Pap Smears to make sure you get treated fort any STD's you might soon get.
(Find one on the link below.)
And call 1-800-342-AIDS to speak to a councelor about Safe Sex. Also, they will tell you where you can take your boyfriend to gte tested for HIV for free--Before you have sex.
Sweetheart, I am 30, and I am very attractive--people think I am still in high school when they see me. I will tell you that I do not have sex--in any way. In the past 10 years, I've been proposed to by 3 different, sucessful, handsome men. I didnt sleep with any of them--no kissing, nothing. They respected me and cared about me deeply..If a man really loves you--he will ask you to marry him--period. I see young girls like you making the same mistakes everyday. I hope you make the right decision. Peace
2006-11-10 05:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Victory 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder how many of us really know what sex is about. It is more than just a scratch to an itch. It is a wonderful gift from God to be shared between two people whose highest form of joy is the giving of themselves to each other. Sex is an element in the art of love making. It is not a commercial product, for crying out loud. It won't run out, so tell him there'll be more when he gets back. Try not to abuse your body now. Although, I must be honest, the need for sex can be so great and overwhelming sometimes, but let your head guide the rest of your body parts.
2016-03-28 01:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ti doesnt matter if its good or bad before marriage. peopel have their own opionos about sex before marriage and sometimes see it as immoral. but it depends on what peopel feel liek abotu the person and their own morals. people souldnt judge peopel if they have sex beofre marriage or not, its their personal choice
some reasons you may want to
you really love that person
you are in a ong term relationship
you;re comfortable
..there are alot of factors it just depends on the person
some reasons you may not want to
you may thing that thats all they want and leave you after you have sex with them
it can ruin a relationship in the end
many toher things i cannot think of....
its up to you its a personal choice whether or not to have pre-marital sex. but you should wait till you are married so when you give up your virginity and the guy leaves you you arent liek"oh well what am i goign to give my husband now"
2006-11-10 05:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is something u have to really think about. Do u really love the guy and he loves u just as much and u know he just does not want u 4 sex. So before u give it up think about what and how much it means to u. It's your decision not his, and if he cant respect that, he is not worth it.
2006-11-10 05:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by ms.pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you buy the car before a test drive?
2006-11-10 05:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to both of you ---- whatever you decide you have to live with -- its ok either way as long as its your decision
if you are getting married why not wait???
2006-11-10 05:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are getting married there is no reason not to.
2006-11-10 05:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not!
2006-11-10 05:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by pink_panther 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO WHATEVER U WANT.
2006-11-10 05:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by CHIKA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋