what should single christian women know about single christian men?
2006-11-10 04:27:36 · 14 answers · asked by Axyl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my experience, Christian men are the hardest to date. They really seem to have this superior attitude and are the lest honest about their feelings. Some of them treat women like they are this horrible temptation that must be fought and less like a human being. They also seem to flirt insincerely more then nonChristian men, which is surprising. I think Christian women should be friends with a Christian guy a long time before dating. This way the guy has to learn to think of her more as a friend to be respected and less like a temptress. I have seen a lot of girls get hurt by the insincere attentions of Christian guys who flirted with girls and then told them they were just friends and are not interested. It was pretty harsh. And they all, no matter what their past seem to have this attitude that they deserve to marry only the most pure, subserviant young girl. This amazed me even more.
Thankfully I found a good Christian guy after years of having given up on dating Christian guys.
2006-11-10 04:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Constant_Traveler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as you get to know him, you will see what kind of a man of God he truley is. Someone can tell you all day what a great Christian he is and how close his walk is. But it's how you watch him walk with Christ that will ultimately show you.
Now if there are certain spiritual things that you have strong opinions for, those things will have to come up in future conversations. If you two are two different in your spirituality, it may not be in your best interest to continue dating.
Take things slow. Walk with Christ as you are getting to know this guy, pray and seek God's answer for you and for him!
Good Luck!
2006-11-10 04:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are his beliefs the same as yours? Does he attend church on a regular basis? What are his family and friends like? Is he a well liked person, a member of somewhat high standing in his church? Is he polite and well mannered? Has he had a dating history with anyone else that you could talk to? Faith will guide you to the right person.
2006-11-10 04:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by US Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Do they love God more than they will love any relationship with me
2. Will he be the spiritual leader in the home
3. What are his standards...
4. Would he be willing to give everything to the Lord
5. What does he want to do in life
6. What is his involvement in church
7. Will he pray with/for me?
8. Will he love me like Christ loves the church?
2006-11-10 04:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by Katie Beth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would guess faith, family and past relationships but it depends on what the christian woman values.
2006-11-10 04:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by evesmystique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make sure if he is a man of god. test his spirit to see if he is a child of god. he would always put god above all other things that life has to offer.then you would know he would be sensentive to all your needs as far as being respected for the person you are as a women of god. god tell you yourself to test the spirit. it most be for a good reason you think.be careful. and god bless you!!
2006-11-10 04:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by dark44chocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they should know that christian men are ... men.
2006-11-10 04:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by James Blond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are the same just saved!
2006-11-10 04:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by cb32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just friends anything more will come in time or ask ure pastor
2006-11-10 04:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by babyblue1512000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What church does he go to?
Is it catholic. protestant, anglican or plain old christian?
Or is it the Church of Satan?
2006-11-10 04:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋